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Ruby 루비

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2019.04.07 04:12
ATTENTION TO ALL BOYS

I want to give you a piece of advice for you when you are pursuing a girl. So many times boys lose their chance because they do not know how to properly get a girl.

DO. NOT. BE. NEEDY.

If you are needy, it comes off as weak. Its very unattractive to girls. You should not be overly romantic when pursuing a girl at first. To most girls, it will feel too clingy.

Do not act cold or arrogant, but also do not be clingy. A girl will be more attracted to a guy who is not acting like he needs her to survive.

Girls want a man who they can lean on, not a man who will lean on them. (This does not mean a girl does not want to care for you, though.)

Of course as you become closer and start dating, you can slowly open up more. And once you are married this is the time to be more open.

Anyways, too many guys these days cannot find a girlfriend because they are being too clingy. They move too quickly and never make the girl have to try to earn them. They are too easy.

Please learn from this post😂
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  • homer 2019.04.07 04:15

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    I totally agree with on your opinion😲
  • 宝龙 2019.04.07 04:19

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    Are you a teacher?
  • Jay 2019.04.07 04:19

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    Thx professor I got it haha
  • drinkmorewater 2019.04.07 05:06

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    Everyone's different and this wouldn't just fit every girl that's why it's always the hardest
  • Ruby 루비 2019.04.07 05:10

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    @drinkmorewater right. But its a majority of girls. We vary in degrees of this. But all my friends think this way and many random girls agree with me, too. Being clingy is almost always bad
  • John.k 2019.04.07 05:51

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    😂😂😂
  • Joey Guo 2019.04.07 08:07

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    To be honest, if a girl is interested in you... you don’t need to do anything. But...
  • Alex 2019.04.09 08:00

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    所以说,费这么大心思去弄这个,根本不值得,性价比太低,到头来还可能竹篮打水一场空,还是继续保持单身比较好
  • Jaeyouns 2019.05.05 13:18

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    🙄🙄🙄🙄
  • AA 2019.05.06 09:36

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    I agree and disagree. Mostly true thou.
  • Ruby 루비 2019.05.06 09:38

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    @AA its not completely black and white. I just posted like this so boys will be careful from now. I didnt like so many men because of this problem
  • AA 2019.05.06 10:01

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    @Ruby 루비 Yes I know what's your point is, but I don't need your advice because I'm not needy.
  • Ruby 루비 2019.05.06 10:02

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    @AA thats good :)
  • AA 2019.05.06 10:02

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    No. I'm just playing. 😎This is gems. Thanks for your insight.

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