I have a lot of random Japanese friends, some I’ve met through

here who won’t talk to me for weeks and then will reach out out of nowhere and will be like “hey are you free tomorrow?” Is this common in Japan? If someone doesn’t talk to me for a while, I don’t really consider them a friend and don’t want to hang out with them. If you wanna hang out, catch up with me, check in occasionally, see how I’m doing. Don’t just ask me to hang out now that you have free time and want to practice english, we aren’t friends lmao