The man doesn't know that there is a snake underneath. doesn't know that there is a stone crushing the man...
The woman thinks,
“I'm going to fall! and I can't climb because the snake is going to bite me! Why can't the man use a little more strength and pull me up!"
The man thinks,
“I am in so much pain! Yet I'm still pulling you as much as I can! why don't you try to climb a little harder?!"
The moral is: You can't see the pressure the other person is under, and the other person can't see pain that you're in.
This is life, no matter whether it's with work, family, feelings or friends we should try to understand each other.
Learn to think differently, perhaps more clearly and communicate better.
A little thought and patience goes a long way.
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