作者名称 国旗国籍

Mari

EN
JP

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TELL SOMEONE YOU ARE

NOT INTERESTED
Every woman I've talked to on this app has experienced harrassment. Here are some phrases you can use. (Let me know if you have other suggestions!)

It's best not to engage too long with people who make you feel uncomfortable. Don't forget that you can report and block!

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"Sorry, I'd rather not talk about that."
"Sorry, I'd rather not send photos."
"Oh, actually I don't share my contact info online."
"Thanks for your interest, but I'm only here to learn English."
"I'm flattered, but I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship."

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"I don't feel comfortable sharing that with you."
"I don't think that's any of your business."
"Please leave me alone."

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"I told you to leave me alone."
"Knock it off." (Stop.)
"I don't think that's funny."
"No, I don't think you're joking."
"You can't say things like that."

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"This is unacceptable."
"I'm reporting you."
"You're disgusting."
"Get out."

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"Hell no."
"F*** off, bro"

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"Are you serious right now."
"You must think you're so funny."
"Come on, you're better than that."
"Mm... how about no."
"Byee"

Comments

  • Mark Lufkin

    Hola amiga. Go Yo puedo ayudar con español
  • Mari

    @Hirokazu Thank you for your comment!
  • Hirokazu

    Your message is shocking to me. I realized it’s so important to be more caring about others,if we guys contact others some times here. Thanks, Elissa.
  • Ken

    I cannot tolerate an obscene message.
  • MAKI

    Thank you for useful English!!
  • Stiine クリスティーン

    すごい!This is the most efficient manual for dealing with 'unpleasantries' that I have seen. I tend to start with something like "sorry, your understanding of adequate language exchange messaging differs from mine", but it is definitely a lot better to be very concrete immediately and set clear borders. Women are often too patient and polite in uncomfortable situations.
  • Mari

    @r Yes, of course!!
  • r

    Wow this is so nice Elissa! Thank you for your helping. Can I share this in Japanese later for people are learning Japanese?😊
  • Maya

    @Mari You rock!
  • Mari

    @Maya You inspired me to write this! Thank you to you too 💕
  • Maya

    Many thanks!
  • Sayumi

    Thank you it's useful haha
  • kaori

    Elissa, thank you for sharing!🙆‍♀️🌸

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