Vivian infinite whys
2020.09.23 08:06
Firstly, you need to correct your statement: It's selfish to just think about yourself. I don't think it's selfish, sometimes we need to concentrate on ourselves first before multitasking in order to handle distractions and focus back more easily. Also we have reasons for caring about other people, we just didn't see them, maybe they got some qualities we don't have, so we admire them, and willing to learn something from them, that's mainly when attractions happened. And if you have developed those qualities yourself, that quality to you will not be as desirable as before. Then you will be more clam and confident. However, on the flip side, we become harder to be pleased, sometimes we don't want to lose our passion and enthusiasm, therefore, it depends what are you perusing, a down to earth self or you want to act a little bit to be more attractive, it's all up to you, no judgement!😄