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Ameera

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2020.09.23 07:46

How to be selfish and just think about myself?
How to not care

about others?
How to worry about myself first. How to love myself first?
How to become a cold hearted person..?
I really wish I knew.
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  • Jyoti 2020.09.23 07:47

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    You don't need to be an cold hearted person... Just try to think everything a logical way... Then you will don't feel hurt and at the same time you can also be kind ❤️❤️❤️
  • Yommo 2020.09.23 07:47

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    I'm worried about what you've been through. It sounds like you're disappointed and sad
  • ..... 2020.09.23 07:50

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    Yeah me too😥sometimes so hard to be selfish l don't know but for sure it's very good for ours Planet, Please don't give up to be Good person sis
  • AA 2020.09.23 07:50

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    You can't, because you are a kind and beautiful girl. All you can do is stay away from those who hurt you. When you are with a kind person, you will feel more happy than ever before.
  • suzy 2020.09.23 07:53

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    I wish that I became a selfish person
  • Eddy 2020.09.23 07:53

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    What happened?
  • hajar 2020.09.23 07:55

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    How???
  • hajar 2020.09.23 07:55

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    How???
  • shawn liu 2020.09.23 07:55

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    Always ask ourself What's the fact How do I feel What do I need How can I make a request to meet it.
  • Anu 2020.09.23 08:05

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    Yes ....how??
  • Vivian infinite whys 2020.09.23 08:06

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    Firstly, you need to correct your statement: It's selfish to just think about yourself. I don't think it's selfish, sometimes we need to concentrate on ourselves first before multitasking in order to handle distractions and focus back more easily. Also we have reasons for caring about other people, we just didn't see them, maybe they got some qualities we don't have, so we admire them, and willing to learn something from them, that's mainly when attractions happened. And if you have developed those qualities yourself, that quality to you will not be as desirable as before. Then you will be more clam and confident. However, on the flip side, we become harder to be pleased, sometimes we don't want to lose our passion and enthusiasm, therefore, it depends what are you perusing, a down to earth self or you want to act a little bit to be more attractive, it's all up to you, no judgement!😄
  • Alvin 2020.09.23 08:23

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    you are kind-hearted.
  • kento. 2020.09.23 09:17

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    Maybe it’s difficult for you😂 I and cat don’t wish you knew it🐱
  • Nahid 2020.09.23 11:06

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    It's healthy to put yourself first , love and take care of yourself. If you do that you can give others love , care that they need. You have to keep your cup full
  • Ameera 2020.09.24 05:00

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    @ @Jyoti @Yommo @..... @AA @suzy @Eddy @hajar @shawn liu @Jeff Ma @Anu @Vivian infinite whys @Alvin @kento. @Nahid Thank you for all of your comments everyone ☺️ ❤️ I read them all and I feel Happy to ready them all~

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