作者名称 国旗国籍

婉丽

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2019.05.29 06:19

下面的文字可能有些粗鲁,但我还是要说。
在这个平台上,母语为汉族者的数量远超母语为英语者的数量。
不能因为你想学英语就随

意的说谎,促使英语母语者来同你交流。
即使你想交朋友,也不意味着别人立即就要同意你的要求。
不要粗鲁的对待那些没有回应你的人。
某些人对你十分陌生,无论你多想学英语或者需要外国朋友,人家也没有任何亏欠。

This might sound rude but I’m going to say it anyway.

Chinese speakers greatly outnumber native English speakers on hello talk.

Just because you want to learn English doesn’t mean you should lie about yourself to try to get English speakers to talk to you.

Even though you might want to be friends with someone doesn’t mean they will immediately agree to be friends with you.

Don’t call someone rude for not responding to your request to be friends.

Someone who is essentially a stranger does not owe you their friendship, no matter how much you might want or need a foreign friend to teach you English.

Ok. Rant over
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  • Betty Asena 2019.05.29 13:36

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    在这个平台上,母语为汉族者的数量远超母语为英语者的数量。

    在这个平台上,母语为汉数量远超母语为英语者的数量。

  • Steven 2019.05.29 06:21

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    😄
  • 艺兴一意 2019.05.29 06:25

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    Sorry for those people,sorry for you.🙏
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 06:25

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    No one cares about rude words. 😁
  • 程佳菱 2019.05.29 06:25

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    China is very, very big, and there are a lot of Chinese people, but there are definitely more polite people in China than rude people 😊
  • 喆喆 2019.05.29 06:26

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    It's true
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:27

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    @程佳菱 I know. I’m just irritated and even though most people are polite, it’s the rude ones that stand out and ruin it for everyone else sometimes.
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 06:27

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    But kind of like your icon anyway.😜
  • Jack 2019.05.29 06:27

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    汉语not汉族。不过,我倒是很感兴趣,他们是怎么撒谎的呢?
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:28

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    @Jeff W杰夫王 I’m not sure if you’re telling me that I shouldn’t care if someone is rude to me, or that other people don’t care if they’re rude. 我不太明白你的意思
  • LanaWishin2BRichOver9 2019.05.29 06:28

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    @Jack 我也想知道
  • Clara きんい 2019.05.29 06:29

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    Everyone who has ever been treated like this should stand out and speak. It's our right to refuse those weirdos and teach them a lesson. Just let'em know the first thing when you talk to others is being polite and respect!
  • Jerry Mouse 2019.05.29 06:29

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    You are right! I support with you!
  • Geger 2019.05.29 06:30

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    里面有很多伪外国人
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:32

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    @Jack he saw a post I wrote earlier this week asking if anyone was looking for an English speaker for a job that wasn’t teaching English. He contacted me saying he might have a job but first wanted me to tell him about myself and wouldn’t tell me about the job he said he had. Then after I told him about myself, he said he just wanted to be my friend and talk to me in English. I told him he misrepresented himself to get me to talk to him and he started to insult me, calling me unfriendly and insane, because he was “just trying to help.”
  • atma 2019.05.29 06:33

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    you can say it again
  • Jack 2019.05.29 06:33

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    @LanaWishin2BRichOver9 婉丽在她的第二条动态里说了,对方真的很糟糕,建议楼主把那个人举报了吧,作为对一个骗子的惩戒,总之他肯定会有污言秽语。
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:33

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    @Geger yes but I’m actually an American. Born and raised.
  • Joy 2019.05.29 06:36

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    You're right. Thank you for sharing moments.
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:38

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    @Jack it doesn’t matter. I blocked him. He’s probably a nice person who didn’t like that I wasn’t entirely pleasant to him. He said he wanted to help but really he was trying to get something for himself. I get contacted by new people every day and can’t respond to everyone. He probably thought it would be a way to start a friendship or to delineate himself from everyone else. He was probably just surprised I wasn’t responding positively. It just happens a lot to me, so it’s frustrating sometimes. I don’t have a lot of time here to actually talk to everyone because of 时差.
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 06:42

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    Solecism! (In grammar and courtesy)😏
  • Lydia -China 2019.05.29 06:42

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    I understand. Not everyone like that. Don’t give them a shit.
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:44

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    @Jeff W杰夫王 I had to look up the definition of solecism!! Not a common word.
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 06:45

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    @Lydia -China I stopped caring about that guy right after I blocked him. Just writing here for someone else’s benefit, hopefully.
  • Sylvia 2019.05.29 06:47

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    一方面这个APP中国人很多,会碰到很多其它交流APP都会碰到的问题就是“让人觉得粗鲁冒犯”;另一方面英语母语的人在这个APP上有没有享受到一些受汉语母语者热情追捧的虚荣呢?所以申明自己的态度,对那些冒犯者直接忽略,对那些骗子点举报。最后建议此APP设置拉黑功能。
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 06:47

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    Frankly speaking,看看你的英语,你可别教他们!
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 06:48

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    @程佳菱 👍
  • Jack 2019.05.29 06:49

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    @婉丽 you are too kind. Anyway, he was and is really bad. Okay, refresh your mood and have a nice time.
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 06:54

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    @婉丽 Don't be partial. Not all Chinese people here behave like what you described.
  • Riley 2019.05.29 06:59

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    Who hurt you?
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 07:14

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    @Jeff W杰夫王 I agree. I’m not saying all Chinese people do this. I’m not even commenting directly and only to Chinese people. People from other countries here have done the same thing and assumed I’d be thrilled to teach them English.
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 07:14

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    @Riley you’ll see if you read through all the comments
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 07:18

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    @Jeff W杰夫王 “Frankly speaking,看看你的英语,你可别教他们” Are you commenting that I shouldn’t be teaching English? Or did I translate that wrong?
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 07:21

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    @Jeff W杰夫王 stop talking about me in the third person. I’m right here reading what you’re writing about me. What’s your problem?
  • Meng 2019.05.29 07:21

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    我基本就是看看而已, 有时候点点赞 。交朋友难说吧。另外这个平台是英孚的广告投放平台吧
  • Li 2019.05.29 07:33

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    Just relax,calm down,nobody can ruin your life,lolllll
  • Jeff W杰夫王 2019.05.29 07:35

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    @婉丽 No problem and no comment again. You go to block the one you mentioned, and I continue to learn English from others. That's it.😁
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 07:46

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    @Jeff W杰夫王 I think that’s an excellent idea, especially the part about you not commenting again.... even though you commented again literally 2 minutes after you said it would be your last comment. Buh-bye.
  • Ave 2019.05.29 07:50

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    I understand your pain. But as a chinese, we also used to face alot of lier that are using US flag. They flirting girls on this app, some of them were very disgusting. They cheated girls by using english, because like you said too many peoples need to learn english. What we can do? Left this app? Or keep complaining? Of course we'll share our pain, we'll block them, but just we still have to keep on.
  • 曼妮杨 2019.05.29 07:51

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    yes good
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 07:59

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    @Ave yes I agree. That also is a sucky situation for you guys. I’ve had some of those guys contact me too. I actually consider leaving this app often but it keeps drawing me back.
  • Jenny_P 2019.05.29 08:03

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    没有看太多评论,但是看完那条你的回复,说有个人要你介绍完自己再告诉你你要的信息,然后就不想告诉你了,不履行自己的承诺,只想找你学英语!对于这种事,这样的人,我只想说,不仅是中国人,哪里都有,不要让这样的人来错误让你对中国人有什么误解!我觉得这样的人就是人品有问题,做人本身就有问题,你完全无需理会,说好的做人的诚信呢,他完全没有!he is so rude to u, then u can definitely choose to IGNORE him, 这个词我还用了大写,你知道是什么意思吧!我看过你的评论,这样的人让我也很烦,烦躁!只能说,可能没有遇到对的人,哪怕是聊天,所以希望你不要介意,其实我们大部分人其实还是很好的!
  • Jenny_P 2019.05.29 08:08

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    还有一点,就是我们是把英语作为第二语言来学习,我觉得很多朋友可能觉得语言的学习仅仅只是语言本身的学习!我觉得这绝对不够的,learning a language is not about language itself, it's also about culture.还记得你有一个帖子说你过生日,结果有中国人没有跟你评论生日快乐,反倒是有个人说你鼻梁高很好看!这个在我们的文化中,是一件很平常的事,我们看到别人身材好,个子高,外貌好看我们会情不自禁去夸,然而对于你们而言,就像你说的,外貌是父母给的,没必要去评论, 评论了也改变不了什么,这确实是,但是这也是我们文化的一部分,所以很多misunderstand是因为文化差异造成,充分了解对方的文化,在沟通交流中确实可以避免一些问题的存在!所以我知道it's unpolite to comment on your appearance, I try to avoid talking about that.
  • Mia 2019.05.29 08:48

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    Why they lie? I think there is no need to lie. If you don't like someone, you can ignore him/ her, leave them alone😝
  • Bryce 蒋 天豪 2019.05.29 09:54

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    Sorry to hear these. But if someone was so rude or offensive to you, just report. Although this app is run by a Chinese team, I am sure they know how respect people from different culture, and maintain a good environment.
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 13:20

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    @Jenny_P that is a very good point. Well said.
  • Jenny_P 2019.05.29 13:35

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    @婉丽 😄😄😄
  • Betty Asena 2019.05.29 13:38

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    "母语为汉族者"这句话是错的。汉族是民族,不是语言
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 13:52

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    @Betty Asena I didn’t write the Chinese. But thanks for the correction.
  • Betty Asena 2019.05.29 14:32

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    @婉丽 不客气呢。只是想建议写这段中文的人应该好好修习语文:)
  • 婉丽 2019.05.29 14:37

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    @Betty Asena no problem. Thank you for your correction. I do appreciate it.
  • Alice嬛嬛 2019.05.30 12:00

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    @婉丽 what keeps drawing you back ?😝
  • clark 2019.05.30 12:00

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    Shake hands.
  • Robin 2019.06.08 01:46

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    @Jenny_P 到处看到你的身影😂,好评论好建议。
  • Jenny_P 2019.06.08 01:52

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    @Robin 不要烦我😂😂
  • 蔷薇 2019.06.11 08:43

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    这是遇到什么人了??😥

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