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Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„

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2021.01.23 22:37

ENGLISH CULTURAL ETIQUETTE FOR KOREAN SPEAKERS ๐Ÿ‡ฐ๐Ÿ‡ทโค๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ

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Koreans say in English that may be misunderstood by English speakers are "Fighting", "Cheer up" and "No (way)". Here is some advice to help avoid confusion:

"Fighting!" (ํ™”์ดํŒ…):
If you want an English speaker to understand that you are encouraging them, you may say "Good luck!", "You can do it!" or more informally "Go get 'em!". If you want to encourage yourself and a partner / team, you can say "All right, let's do this!"

"Cheer up" (ํž˜๋‚ด):
In English, "cheer up" is only used when a person is sad. If you say it to someone who is not sad, it sounds very strange ๐Ÿ˜ณ. Be mindful that "cheer up" can sound like a request or an order.
To be safe, only use this expression informally when someone is sad and you are trying to make them happy. Avoid using it in text messaging if possible.
If you are with a sad person that you want to cheer up, you may empathetically say: "I hope/am sure all will be ok".

"No way" (์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”):
While "no way" is a polite response to a compliment in Korean, in English it means "I can't believe that". It is an unusual response to a compliment. When you respond "No (way)" to a compliment, you are telling the person who complimented you that they are being untruthful or false (which may be perceived as offensive).
It is best to say "thank you"๐Ÿ™‚, "I am happy you liked it", "I am touched, thanks". Thanking the person who gives a compliment is always the easiest polite response in English.

What faux-pas have you heard English speakers make in Korean and what would you recommend?

(Thanks to ๊ฒฝ์•„ and Annie for their input)

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  • noah 2021.01.23 22:41

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    ๐Ÿ‘
  • Nell ใ…Ž.ใ…Ž 2021.01.23 22:46

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    So interesting! I didn't go yet that far in learning Korean to meet these expressions. Thanks ๐Ÿ‘
  • Louis 2021.01.23 22:49

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    Brazilians also used fighting.
  • Mok 2021.01.24 00:30

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    ๐Ÿ˜๋ฌด์ง€๊ฐœ๋‹ท
  • Happyday_Wildgorilla 2021.01.24 07:32

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    This is exactly what I always make a mistake!!! I am so sorry! ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข
  • May 2021.01.24 08:20

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    Thank you, Alia. ^^ Theyโ€™re really helpful. I would like to speak English like natives.
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 09:37

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    @noah ๐Ÿ™‚
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 09:40

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    @Nell ใ…Ž.ใ…Ž Tu travsilles si dur dans toutes les langues๐ŸŒŸ!Trรจs vite, si tu communiques avec des corรฉens en anglais, tu pourras voir ces expressions apparaรฎtre dans leurs messages, je me demande comment ils les traduisent en franรงais๐Ÿ™‚
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 09:42

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    @Louis Really? I was absolutely not aware of this! Is it a translation of a Portuguese expression?
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 09:44

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    @Mok ๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ˜ My neighbor's house
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 09:49

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    @Happyday_Wildgorilla Hahaha no worries๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป, I learned before communicating with you what these actually mean in a Korean speaker's intentions. I am sure I have made faux-pas trying to say something in Korean with a Western mindset. I hope my Korean friends explain this to me๐Ÿ˜ƒ.
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 09:51

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    @May Dear , I am glad that you found these useful. Given your dedication, I am certain you will reach your goal๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ˜! ํ™”์ดํŒ… ๐Ÿ˜‰!!
  • Olga 2021.01.24 10:24

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    It was very interesting for me too๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 10:30

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    @Olga Really? that's great๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป! Are these expressions in English similar to Russian?
  • Olga 2021.01.24 10:34

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ I don't know for sure, but I think-a little bit similar.
  • Nell ใ…Ž.ใ…Ž 2021.01.24 11:29

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ Oh! Tu as raison je ne le suis pas posรฉe cette question. Je n'ai pas encore de partenaire de langue corรฉen. Alors, je n'ai pas encore eu ร  expรฉrimenter l'usage des expressions. Je dois essayer!
  • ibony 2021.01.24 11:52

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    Los japoneses digo ใŒใ‚“ใฐใฃใฆ
  • May 2021.01.24 12:11

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ Thanks a lot for your encouragement.
  • Anna 2021.01.24 13:59

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    ๊ณ ๋งˆ์›Œ์š”. ๋ฌด์ง€๊ฐœ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์ด์˜๋‹ค. ํž˜๋‚ด์š”!
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 15:24

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    @Olga Thank you dear Olga๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 15:26

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    @Nell ใ…Ž.ใ…Ž Je suis curieuse de savoir๐Ÿ˜๐ŸŒท N'hรฉsite pas ร  me raconter.
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 15:28

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    @ibony Quรฉ interesante, sรญ. Creo que se parece mรกs a ํ™”์ดํŒ… que a las expresiones en inglรฉs๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™‚
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 15:29

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    @May ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐ŸŒท
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 15:29

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    @Anna ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป
  • SweetGrace 2021.01.24 18:57

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    This is very useful to me~~~๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป Thank you sooooo much~~๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 19:00

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    @SweetGrace I am happy you have found this useful๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป!
  • SweetGrace 2021.01.24 19:39

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ Your class is always perfect~~~๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ I'm happy to know you~๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.24 20:30

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    @SweetGrace @Anna I could say the same about you dear ๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป Actually, I wanted to ask, what do Korean speakers usually mean when they say "cheer up" or ํž˜๋‚ด to someone who is not sad? I am not sure I understand well yet๐Ÿ˜ (same question to you )๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒท
  • SweetGrace 2021.01.24 20:35

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ Actually, I didn't know it perfectly. I knew for sure today. Thank you so much~~๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ
  • Happyday_Wildgorilla 2021.01.25 01:34

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ Um... Well, it may not be a problem in Western thinking but different from young generation with me. Anyway, it's a little embrassed for young people who are about 30 years younger than me to ask me to be friends. They usually said "Hello~ I want to learn Korean. so Will you be my Korean friend?" Frankly, they never even spoken a word with me at all. So I answerd "It's hard to be friends because of the age difference, but if you want to study Korean, I will help" Then they said "Age is not matter. You domt like me?" (I know 'it is not matter!' ๐Ÿ˜ฐ) With young people's thinking, can they be friends without a word? Is this common to all others? ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข
  • Najla 2021.01.25 09:12

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    Interesting ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿฃ
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.25 09:38

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    @Happyday_Wildgorilla 1: How interesting๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป! Thank you for sharing this๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ˜ I think you are responding well to these youngsters and it is good to tell them how you feel most comfortable๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป. People should not take it personally. In US English, being a "friend" can range from being superficial buddies to real friends to being mentor/mentee. If young people are asking "Will you be my Korean friend?" I think they maybe mean that they want you to be their language partner or their Korean language mentor, a bit like when in Korean one says "May I learn Korean from you? Please take good care of me"). (continues)
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.25 09:41

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    @Happyday_Wildgorilla 2: It is true that we have "friends" of all ages in the West and find it cute that Koreans for example call each other friends if they were born the same year๐Ÿ˜ (which is something we would not consider at all). Anecdote: I found an interesting HelloTalk Korean profile. I would sometimes like and comment and never checked the age. I follow and am followed by people 16 and older. It turns out the user was 30 something. He wrote to me privately to tell me he was not comfortable having online friends my age. It was a huge surprise to me but I know one cannot get offended as each culture is different๐Ÿ˜. I responded that I respected his choice. What to do๐Ÿ˜‚? All this to acknowledge that yes, concepts of age and friendship differ a lot in our cultures and I think you are handling buddy/friend/mentee requests well๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™‚.
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.25 09:43

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    @SweetGrace ๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
  • Happyday_Wildgorilla 2021.01.25 11:48

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ haha~ ๐Ÿ˜… I totally understand what you're saying! โ˜บ Yes.. I agree!!! However, I think that is not the different between western and Eastern people but also young and older one. It might be possible for me, if they want to be a friend such as language partener (a light meaning). But honestly, I'm embarrassed when they ask me if you'll be my friend without any interaction. They don't even know my gender, age, name, job, and even my nationality. I already wrote about these things in my self-introduction. I think they just write the same request to many people and are waiting for their answers. When they got a reply from me, they start to text with me even they didnt know my information at all. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
  • ibony 2021.01.25 22:46

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    @Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ ใŒใ‚“ใฐใฃใฆ
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.26 18:55

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    @Happyday_Wildgorilla Oh I understand better~ As a teacher I find that youngsters tend to read less and less. You are right๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ‘๐ŸปBy interacting here on Hellotalk I agree they should be mindful of jow they contact people.Like you, I would not be surprised if they are sending requests to tons of people indeed. I know you want to be polite by responding but you probably don't need to๐Ÿ™‚.
  • Alia ์•Œ๋ฆฌ์•„ 2021.01.26 18:58

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    @ibony Oh ํž˜๋‚ด means "work hard"? This is so helpful, thank you๐Ÿ˜ƒ! I don't know why it gets translated as "cheer up" as both expressions mean very different things. Cool๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

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