I finished listening to the audible version of "The 7 Habitsof Highly Effective People," by Stephen R. Covey. He teaches a lot as the title says, to be highly effective in life. In today's society for example we live in an interpendent society where people work together. Having the interpendent traits first you need to be independent then you can learn to be more effective in life. He also gives examples of how he raised his children wrong at first and has problems with it. He gave examples on how to be more effective in communicating with others by understanding their point of view and how to get a win-win situation conversation for both sides.
He spoked about the
win-win, lose-lose, lose-win and win-lose in relationship and business.
A lose-win relationship is an relationship that you give in to the other partner to let them win everything. This is not a good relationship of course, for you it will cause future regrets down in the future, poor confidence, self esteem and many other issues. And this win person only thinks of themselves. This is something that should be avoided of course!
Down the road of win-win is the most ideal relationship. Both sides are winning something. This thinking can also lead to success in business too.
Example: You sell a product to make profit but the product is also an affordable price + fits customer needs. Both sides win-win in this situation.
In summary, become more effective starting with yourself. Learn how to raise children in the right direction while also being effective yourself whether in relationships or business. 👍
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