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Victor The Sunflower

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2021.08.17 11:12
I finished listening to the audible version of "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People," by Stephen R. Covey. He teaches a lot as the title says, to be highly effective in life. In today's society for example we live in an interpendent society where people work together. Having the interpendent traits first you need to be independent then you can learn to be more effective in life. He also gives examples of how he raised his children wrong at first and has problems with it. He gave examples on how to be more effective in communicating with others by understanding their point of view and how to get a win-win situation conversation for both sides.

He spoked about the
win-win, lose-lose, lose-win and win-lose in relationship and business.
Example:
(you)lose-win(other person)
A lose-win relationship is an relationship that you give in to the other partner to let them win everything. This is not a good relationship of course, for you it will cause future regrets down in the future, poor confidence, self esteem and many other issues. And this win person only thinks of themselves. This is something that should be avoided of course!

Down the road of win-win is the most ideal relationship. Both sides are winning something. This thinking can also lead to success in business too.

Example: You sell a product to make profit but the product is also an affordable price + fits customer needs. Both sides win-win in this situation.

In summary, become more effective starting with yourself. Learn how to raise children in the right direction while also being effective yourself whether in relationships or business. 👍
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  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 11:14

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    It's 4 AM time for bed 🛏️ 🤣👍
  • Lina 2021.08.17 11:16

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    Excellent
  • 英语初学者 2021.08.17 11:25

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    well, in the 6th row of your text, the wors might be 'interdependent' not 'interpendent'. well, Im not sure, but I get confused.
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 11:25

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    @Jessie 👍
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 11:27

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    @英语初学者 interpendent : (of two or more people or things) dependent on each other.
  • moondance 2021.08.17 11:29

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    I think it's one of the few books that focus on the development of your character.
  • 英语初学者 2021.08.17 11:30

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    @Victor The Sunflower gotcha, thx!
  • Hanna Phan 2021.08.17 11:30

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    Great! 😶🤔
  • Happy Tran 2021.08.17 11:33

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    @Jessie i love your voice 🌹
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 11:34

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    @moondance đúng 👍The #1 Most Influential Business Book of the Twentieth Century, over 40 million sold now. In 40 different languages.
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 11:35

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    I forget to add to the post. Habit 1: Be Proactive Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind Habit 3: Put First Things First Habit 4: Think Win/Win Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood Habit 6: Synergize Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
  • 𝒞ℯ𝒸𝒾𝓁𝒾𝒶 2021.08.17 11:40

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    I like procrastination🤣
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 11:41

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    @𝒞ℯ𝒸𝒾𝓁𝒾𝒶 a lot of people do 🤣
  • Haruna 2021.08.17 11:41

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    I have read this book as an assignment !
  • Happy Tran 2021.08.17 11:42

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    @Victor The Sunflower thank you so much for sharing!
  • Jessie 2021.08.17 11:43

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    @Happy Tran thanks🌟
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 19:45

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    @Haruna 👍
  • Victor The Sunflower 2021.08.17 19:45

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    @Happy Tran No problem. 👍
  • riko 2021.08.18 01:05

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    I also like this book💕 "It is possible for everyone to be satisfied" I think so😇

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