I found these tips from an English teacher. I added my own translations

to the things that she said.

https://learnenglishwithdemi.wordpress.com/2018/07/31/stop-asking-native-english-speakers-to-correct-your-english/

我的想法是：

Native English speakers always want to encourage you, but sometimes encouragement is not the right way to help you. For example, if you're on the wrong road, you don't need encouragement, you need guidance ... so unless the native speaker knows when to guide you and when to encourage you, don't ask him for help.

以英语为母语的人总是想鼓励你，但有时鼓励不是正确的帮你学会英语的方式。例如，如果你走错了路，你不需要鼓励，你需要指导。。。所以，除非说母语的人知道什么时候该引导你，什么时候该鼓励你，否则不要向他求助。