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2021.09.20 01:03
我看了一下《再见爱人》….
你们觉得他们说的对不对呢?

我来了不是跟你讲道理,
我来了就是给你撑腰的。
I’m not here to reason with you,
I’m here to support you.

他讲自己的爸爸是怎么培养他的,他说,灌输的知识都是关于如何去面对工作上的问题,但没有跟他讲心理障碍之类的问题是怎么处理的,也没有告诉他怎么去爱一个人。其实也不能说“告诉”吧,因为爱这事儿,只有行动才能把它表现出来。

我听他的故事就感到心情沉重。
如果不是去爱他人,人类为何存在呢?
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  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 01:05

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    中文
  • JANELRM 2021.09.20 01:07

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    其实他自己也可以获取关于爱的知识,或者说去体验爱。毕竟他和他的老婆已经在一起19年了
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 01:10

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    对方需要关爱的,而不需要你告诉他真相。The other person needs to feel cared for, not to be told what’s right and what’s wrong. I was more creative about my translation here because I feel like “told the truth, told the facts” doesn’t sound quite as accurate in English.
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 01:11

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    @JANELRM really?!? 😯 19 years….wow. I didn’t know that. Good point!!
  • alan 2021.09.20 01:53

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    To reason is to fight, because there is no correct reasoning or wrong reasoning, where there's a point there is a reasoning. And there's not such a thing called fact or truth. There's only explanations. An objective pure fact is just an Illusion . Just like What he said, he made it like he was stating a truth, but it's just his explanation. By this explanation he's still reasoning, to defend his over reasoning. 😄😄😄 Certainly all this is also my explanation, and reasoning. They might be all wrong, or correct. Depends on different people s different reasonings and explanations.
  • 云中歌 2021.09.20 01:58

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    对于爱情我一无所知,因为我还小😂
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 01:58

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    @alan haha! True true 😊😉 but if that’s true, then there’s no truth. No right or wrong. Therefore no lines, no dark or light, no shadows, just nothingness. You are nothing. Instead, I choose to believe you are something. ☺ that there is dark and light. 💕 We are each entitled to our opinions. I appreciate you sharing yours.
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 01:59

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    @云中歌 😂 I think children often understand it more than adults do. 😉
  • 云中歌 2021.09.20 02:05

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    @雅玲 민지 Marie 不不不,I am striaght man
  • alan 2021.09.20 02:09

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    @雅玲 민지 Marie 😄😄😄 Yes, opinions are just words, words are just sounds or signs, they don't matter a lot. What matters is to feel happy , because that is true, and it doesn't need any explanation. Je vous souhaite une très bonne journée.
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 02:09

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    @云中歌 你是说直男吗?😄
  • 云中歌 2021.09.20 02:10

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    @雅玲 민지 Marie 我都分不清你到底是哪国人了😂
  • ruan阮呀 2021.09.20 04:23

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    @雅玲 민지 Marie 你中文学的太好了吧🙈
  • Ada 2021.09.20 05:10

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    You are watching it too? This is my no.1 favorite show right now😍 I like everything in the show, the couples, the observers, the places they filmed and the BGM
  • Henry 2021.09.20 10:02

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    我觉得你的有一句改成: 对方需要感到被关爱,而不需要你告诉他真相/对错。/对方需要的是关爱,而不是真相/对错。 会比较好。 Or is this just a quote from the series as well? My opinions: I think humans are here to create and experience with our consciousness. We need to be conscious of what we do because it will affects us in many different ways.
  • Mustapha Lz 2021.09.20 10:24

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    So pretty Goodluck my sister💕💕👋😊🌹❤
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 11:41

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    @Ada it’s really well done!!!
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 11:42

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    @Henry it’s a quote from the series! 嗯嗯!
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 11:42

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    @Grant Zhao 嗯嗯!
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.20 11:42

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    @Mustapha Lz 💕
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.21 01:46

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    @Archer I think understanding yourself and what you need helps a lot. 虽然我没有什么经验…😂
  • Fun_guru 方轱辘 2021.09.21 14:30

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    现在这个情况很常见,父母关注孩子外在的东西,如知识,成绩,钢琴等才艺,但是忽略孩子的内心,导致孩子长大了从外在看都挺优秀,但是内心有很多困扰,很多纠结。我从事这类工作,看见很多这样的故事。
  • Bmf 2021.09.22 00:47

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    finally understand why I desire to leave so bad.
  • Bmf 2021.09.22 02:31

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    Our culture often emphasizes entirety. Individual needs like emotion are always ingored in Asian countries. That is why many Asian people are suffering mental diseases.
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.22 10:43

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    @Fun_guru 方轱辘 you work as a psychologist or therapist? That’s so good! Well-said. Often parents make it more about outward appearances and achievements than what’s going on inside.
  • 雅玲 민지 Marie 2021.09.22 10:55

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    @Bmf aw, we’ll it’s this way in many places. Humans struggle with many things all over the world. 😢💕 finding peace inside yourself about your own journey is most important.

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