🗣 Lately, I have been dealing with a lot of disrespectful men

on this app. On many occasions, I watch how some men (not all, not you if this doesn’t apply to you) treat women.

Then I thought to myself, maybe even out loud, would they treat their mothers, daughters, sisters, aunts, or any women in life this way?

Even more so, would they even talk to other men this way? Probably not. Then I thought, some lady must of treat them bad for them to treat a complete stranger bad. But those are just excuses. Your environment doesn’t always have to reflect your decisions. If there was a choice to treat people good or bad, why treat them bad?

Weak people like to pick on other people. They like to do it in front of an audience so they can appear like they are above all. If you have the choice to be kind and respectful, be it. You will never be happy at the expense of being disrespectful towards them.

Comments

Lili123

100％ agree with u

2021.02.01 13:12
Risa 이리사

❤❤❤❤ love this

2021.02.01 09:45
May

@Elies yeah, a lots of men seem to have opinions like this.

2021.02.01 08:41
Lucky 王乐乐

@Elies the point of my post is to shed light on the recent events that I have experienced in this app. The experience is related to the harassment towards women by these men. You said, “only women are complaining “ then you said, “women are subjected to these complaints . A women shouldn’t be subjected to anything except to be respected and treated as a human being. I’m not sure if there is a language barrier between us but your comments seems to insinuate that it’s ok for some men to harass woneb

2021.02.01 07:17
Elies

@May Women respect men, and men still consider themselves important in this world.

2021.02.01 05:26
May

@Elies You said it is ok for men. It means that most of woman are respect to others. ^^

2021.02.01 05:20
Elies

@May ???

2021.02.01 01:24
ผึ้ง

I love your thoughts. ❤️

2021.01.31 23:51
May

@Elies you’re so funny. ^^

2021.01.31 23:51
Nice_girl

True 👏

2021.01.31 22:21
Lucky 王乐乐

@Elies the difference is that women harassment online is likely to be gender based. Do you think men get harassed online because they are men? And the men who do get harassed online are men who have or identify with a sexual preference.

2021.01.31 20:26
Elies

@Lucky 王乐乐 I meant that girls in this app are subject to this attitude. I have not heard such complaints from men.

2021.01.31 20:16
Lucky 王乐乐

@أحمد I made an error . Your correct it’s must have not must of

2021.01.31 20:09
Lena

I doubt these guys would've ever treated women they know irl that way. They are just using an opportunity on anonymous chatting. Don't be bothered by such weirdos, girl ☺️ just tell them to gtfo

2021.01.31 20:06
Lucky 王乐乐

@Elies I’m sorry I think I’m not understanding what your saying. If a stranger made derogatory remarks about opening your mouth wide because she’s from a specific country, or was told her profile pic is disgusting because she has puckered lip on it, you consider this complaining ? I just want to make sure I understand you right before I comment .

2021.01.31 20:01
Yulia

Very true! Only weak people assert themselves by showing disrespect to others. Let them pass us by...

2021.01.31 18:37
أحمد

This is irrelevant but in 3rd paragraph you wrote “must of treat”. Is this another way to spell “must’ve” ?

2021.01.31 18:36
Elies

Have you noticed? Only girls complaining about it.😂 It's ok for men.

2021.01.31 18:34
Qero

Just block them miss , respect is first 🙏🏻

2021.01.31 18:22
Shoq

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🌹🤗

2021.01.31 18:09
Kat

Unfortunately, there are a lot of such people not only in this application. They're everywhere

2021.01.31 18:02
Istemi Äxmätşah

The second person in my feed claims that here is a lot of disrespectful men. It's a bad tendency that in online messaging people are not polite as they are in life.

2021.01.31 17:42