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rosesaintrednono

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2021.06.20 05:39

大家好!
我想知道您对许多人通常所说的“初恋”的看法。
有些人甚至将单恋/暗恋视为“初恋”。
他们被赋予了一个特殊的位置

,即使多年后仍是许多人的美好回忆。
你认为它是什么? 是在谈恋爱还是只是在远处欣赏你喜欢的人?
初恋可以只有一个吗? 你需要达到一定的年龄才能体验吗?
如果您在“初恋”之后以不同的方式喜欢某人,并意识到您的“初恋”不是爱情而是友谊,那该怎么办?

这个概念从何而来?

我很想听听你的想法!

在一些中国朋友和韩国朋友告诉我之前,我个人从未听说过它。
(这是由谷歌翻译翻译的所以它可能有错误)
Hello everyone!
I wanted to know your opinion about what's commonly referred to as "first love" by many.
Some even consider unrequited love or "a crush" as "first love".
They're given a special place and is a sweet memory for many even after many years.
What you do think it is? Is it being in a relationship or is it just admiring the one you like from afar?
Can there only be one first love? Do you need to be of certain age to experience it?
What if you have liked someone later on in a different way after your "first love" and realized that your "first love" was not love but friendship that you misunderstood?

Where did this concept come from?

I would love to hear what you think about it!

I've personally never heard about it before a few Chinese friends and Korean friends told me about it.
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  • Estella 2021.06.20 05:40

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    我…………我不知道如何回答。IDK😂
  • 木jay 2021.06.20 05:41

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    同蹲:D
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 05:41

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    @Estella 哈哈哈哈 我也不知道,所以想问问大家怎么看。
  • 失望 2021.06.20 05:43

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    那么那个初恋并不算真正的初恋,初恋是你第一个真正喜欢的人
  • 張忠葉 2021.06.20 05:44

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    First love should be the first practice that we yearn for the future feelings to the reality, it is in love. I think first love is the first love after puberty.
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 05:45

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    @失望 同意谢谢你表达你的意见!
  • 張忠葉 2021.06.20 05:46

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    I just broke up with my first love, and I wonder if this is a traditional relationship, because we don't have any substantive love exchanges like real lovers.
  • canai 2021.06.20 05:46

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    I thinnk first love.because you like him first a person.he not like your. Feelings are not paid by one side.I hope your understand that.
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 05:47

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    @張忠葉 first practice? Interesting. Thank you so much for commenting!
  • 張忠葉 2021.06.20 05:48

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    @rosesaintrednono I think our precious first love should stay at the right time, because I started at the wrong time, and breaking up is really a very painful thing.
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 05:48

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    @張忠葉 I'm sorry to hear that, hope you're okay. I wonder if first love is just for the sake of it which ends up with a breakup or if it can last forever.
  • 張忠葉 2021.06.20 05:50

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    @rosesaintrednono Are you experiencing your first love?
  • rainbow 2021.06.20 05:56

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    我喜欢我的一个初中同学,因为中考还有各方面原因,我一直没有表白,可能她也知道我喜欢她,直到我上了高中,和她已经不在同一个学校,我才意识到我真的离不开她,在经历了高一艰难的一学期之后,我才和她表白。但是她拒绝了,我很难受,我到现在也没有走出来,但我也没有勇气在追求她,因为我害怕把一切都弄糟,而我还要高考,我不知道我该怎么办。我觉得这都是因为我太喜欢她了,我离不开她,我想,即使我走出了这段感情,我也永远不会忘记
  • Edward 에드워드 2021.06.20 05:56

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    First love will mature me, and then let me know how to fall in love.
  • Shaniya 2021.06.20 06:03

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    我竟不知如何回答
  • Ni Anqi 2021.06.20 06:05

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    我很喜欢一个说法:暗恋只关乎我自己和我喜欢的那个人无关。人类的情感是动态的、复杂的,每个人在不同状态、空间、时间中都有不一样的感受。人类的情感有时很让人头晕,但这同时也很有趣。☺
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:11

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    @Ni Anqi indeed it is! I like this too! Thanks a lot for sharing this anqi 💕
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:12

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    @Edward 에드워드 that's a nice way to see it! Thanks Edward!
  • Ni Anqi 2021.06.20 06:12

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    @rosesaintrednono 😄
  • 马桶盖盖子 2021.06.20 06:12

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    初恋,可能就是年少时懵懵懂懂地喜欢上了一个人,可能自己也不太确定是不是喜欢他,但就是很想见他很想引起他的注意,或许多年后也不会忘记的一个人。
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:12

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    @Shaniya 哈哈哈哈 it's alright😂😂
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:17

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    @马桶盖盖子 是的。但初恋是永远持续还是不意味着永远持续下去?
  • 马桶盖盖子 2021.06.20 06:20

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    @rosesaintrednono emm可能会随着时间流逝那份感情会慢慢变淡,但是又会偶尔想起,我觉得初恋跟青春相联系,那份回忆会跟随人一辈子
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:21

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    @马桶盖盖子 so it's synonymous with youth. Thanks
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:22

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    @Edward 에드워드 haha thanks! I just wanted to know how everyone thinks about it because I haven't experienced it and have a completely different view on it.
  • Edward 에드워드 2021.06.20 06:23

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    @rosesaintrednono okay good luck~
  • 马桶盖盖子 2021.06.20 06:23

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    @rosesaintrednono Maybe
  • mia 2021.06.20 06:36

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    如果是真心喜欢他的话,可以试着放手一博,我觉得你才会觉得值不值得,加油!😁
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:39

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    @mia 我谁都不喜欢。我只是征求大家的意见😎😂
  • Cody 2021.06.20 06:40

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    What I think briefly that “First Love” may means erotic love, romantic love, love as power, and mutual love that moved me when I haven’t was had a experience of loving.
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 06:42

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    @Cody I see . Thank you Cody!
  • 礼随风起. 2021.06.20 07:22

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    I think the first love for me was just a good relationship, not a real love relationship. After all, the person I like doesn't seem to like me very much haha, but when I think of him , i feel very happy lol😂
  • 嗯嗯 2021.06.20 07:24

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    初恋是什么?是一个人在懵懂时期所喜欢的一个人的过程,为什么会有初恋呢?因为大家初恋的时候,都还有一份懵懂,一份纯真,所以他是美好的,所以他是难以忘却的。因为无论如何,你的心都曾经给过他,所以他永远都会在你的心中占有一席之地。 单恋和暗恋,不等同于初恋 单恋亦可称之为单相思,只是你单方面的喜欢 暗恋是悄无声息的,是不需要为众人所知的 每个人可以单恋很多次,也可以暗恋很多次 但初恋只有一次,不是吗? 以上仅是我的个人看法,不喜勿喷,谢谢
  • 你敢劈我瓜 2021.06.20 07:46

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    @Ni Anqi 你说的对
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 07:47

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    @嗯嗯 thanks for expressing your view on this! Although I wonder if there's really a first love. I've never considered anything as "first love". Maybe it's just a concept some believe in, and some don't. Some don't even know!
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 07:48

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    @你敢劈我瓜 @Ni Anqi 是的,她是对的 ! 我非常喜欢哈哈
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 08:04

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    @rainbow 非常感谢你分享这个!i hope you do very well in your entrance exams and find many new friends^^
  • 嗯嗯 2021.06.20 09:08

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    @rosesaintrednono 好的
  • 叶诗靖 2021.06.20 10:20

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    初恋,是第一个你想结婚的人
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 12:13

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    @叶诗靖 哈哈哈哈
  • Hunk 2021.06.20 13:25

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    学到了,暗恋叫crush
  • 小北 2021.06.20 14:31

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    首先,谷歌竟然翻译得这么标准是我没想到的。又及,感觉双向交往才叫初恋吧,单恋应该只是想入非非罢了😂
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.20 14:33

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    @小北 thanks for your opinion 😂 But some consider one way love as first love too 😂😂
  • mia 2021.06.21 02:35

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    @rosesaintrednono 抱歉,不过谢谢你回复我😋
  • Augestern 2021.06.21 03:15

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    emm,初恋在中国指的是在人生中第一个在一起的恋人
  • Charlotte 2021.06.21 13:02

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    哈哈哈通常指第一次恋爱
  • Qing 2021.06.22 14:38

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    I think my recent experience may be fit for this one... About ten years ago when I first entered my primary school... I think I just got a crush on her on the first sight (and I just got to know the same thing happened to her as well). But at that period of time I think I was just so young that I could not understand what is love. However our relationship rises. I am so lucky. I was always in the same school with her till now (I just refused to enter the best middle school by handing in an empty paper in the entrance exam... but I ,with her, finally entered the best high school as well(so lucky) Bwoah... it is quite a shame to recognized I didn’t even just touch her in that nine years... so I am always thinking maybe it is so called a unrequited love... maybe I am just admiring her... for I always view her flawless. However, after I entered my high school. I finally get into a relationship with her just three months ago.
  • Qing 2021.06.22 14:42

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    We select different subjects so we have different classrooms... and they are quite far from each other. It make us difficult to meet each other... and maybe because I have admired her so long that I just dare not do anything that a boyfriend may do. And in the view that we are both one of the most popular students in our school, our relationship must catch much attention if I make it too clear... so I am now doubting whether it will be better if we just stay as friendes instead of lovers.
  • Qing 2021.06.22 14:43

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    The problem has bothered me recently. Thanks for giving me a place to express it whatever.
  • rosesaintrednono 2021.06.22 15:03

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    @Qing hey! Thank you so much for sharing that! Quite a story! You must really like her if your feelings for her haven't changed at all after all these years. This is so rare and movie-like haha. It's so pure and innocent 🤧🤧 I wish you both all the best in whatever you choose to do in the future! Thank you again^^
  • Endearing Cat 2021.06.26 14:11

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    我现在就有了我第一个喜欢的人,其实我对这些东西还是有点迷茫,不知道该怎么办。
  • 破晓逐辰 2021.06.28 10:05

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    我个人认为应该是第一个喜欢的人
  • 若世 2021.06.29 01:31

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    初恋就是你喜欢的第一个人。人们总是很难忘记自己的第一次。所以很多人会一直记住自己的初恋很久很久,但这不代表自己还依然爱着自己的初恋(虽然有些人会继续爱着自己的初恋,即使多年过后)。简而言之就是第一个喜欢的人 First love is the first person you like. People are always hard to forget their first time. So many people will always remember that their first love has been a long time, but this does not mean that they still love their first love (although some people will continue to love their first love, even after years after "). In short, it is the first person you love
  • 若世 2021.06.29 01:35

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    但是有些人认为初恋也就是和一个人的第一次恋爱
  • jemmie 2021.07.10 01:25

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    我认为初恋是第一个真正用心喜欢的人 你们在一起 做过情侣之间很浪漫的事 一起成长一起进步 这是最好的样子 我很向往和初恋走到最后的爱情💏

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