Recently I’ve seen several posts from women saying they were sexually harassed through messages by East Asian men on this app — mostly Chinese men, and a smaller number of Korean men. A few foreign friends of mine have told me similar stories. I honestly feel ashamed about it. Isn’t HelloTalk supposed to be a language-learning app? I have two messages for anyone who reads this: To men: Please pay attention. When you do these ugly things, you’re not only hurting a woman you’ve never met — you’re also making your nationality obvious. People can see where you’re from, and your behavior brings shame on your country and on East Asian men as a whole. To women: Don’t put East Asian men — especially Chinese men — on a pedestal. They are not automatically synonymous with chivalry or gentleness. In fact, many have warped attitudes. The men who harass women tend to be over 30 and often use some weird photos as their avatars. They send you massage. Once you reply them, they will start trying to harass you. They’re either unable to marry because of poor personal circumstances, or they’re already married and still use social apps to do disgusting things for a thrill. If you see someone who fits these patterns, don’t reply — it’s the best way to avoid being harassed 最近我多次看到有女孩发帖子吐槽她们在这个软件上受到了来自东亚男人的语言性骚扰（大部分为中国男人少部分为韩国男人），我也从我几个外国朋友那里听说了类似的事情。我真的为此感到羞耻，hellotalk 难道不是一个学习语言的软件吗？ 我有两句话送给能看到这个帖子的任何人！ 对于男人：请你们注意, 当你们做这些丑陋的事情的时候你们不仅在伤害一个与你素未谋面的女性！而且别人可以清晰的看到你们的国籍！你们的所作所为会让你们的国家，让东亚男人这个群体蒙羞。 对于女人：请不要对东亚男人尤其是中国男人有任何滤镜！他们不是绅士风度或者温柔的代名词，相反其中有很多人心理扭曲！可以看到骚扰女性的这些人基本都是30以上，用着自己有点奇怪的而且并不好看的照片当头像！他们要么是因为自身条件过差无法结婚，要么是已经结婚了但是仍然尝试在社交软件上做一些恶心的事来寻找刺激。所以如果看到这种特征的人直接不要回复，避免遭到骚扰！