# 昨日、友達から新しく手に入れたバッグと真珠をメッセージで見せて、「買って」と勧められました。私は写真を見ても全く買... ## Quick Navigation - [Find Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners.md): Discover language exchange partners worldwide - [Language Exchange](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange.md): Practice with native speakers worldwide - [Moments](https://www.hellotalk.com/moments.md): Share your language learning journey - [Topics](https://www.hellotalk.com/topics.md): Explore trending topics and discussions - [Chat & Messaging](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/chat.md): Text, voice, and video conversations - [Voice Rooms](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/voiceroom.md): Join live audio conversations - [Live Streaming](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/live-streaming.md): Interactive classes and language sessions - [Certified Teachers](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/certified-teachers.md): Learn from professional language instructors - [Immersive Learning](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/immersive-learning.md): Learn everywhere with instant translations - [Translation Tools](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/translation.md): Instant translation between any languages - [AI-Powered Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Access specialized learning tools - [Language AI Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Discover our AI-powered language learning applications - [All Features](https://www.hellotalk.com/features.md): Explore all learning features and tools - [Download](https://www.hellotalk.com/download.md): Get HelloTalk on iOS and Android ## Author - **Name**: RISA - **Username**: @sun_risa20 ## Content 昨日、友達から新しく手に入れたバッグと真珠をメッセージで見せて、「買って」と勧められました。私は写真を見ても全く買う気がなく、彼女に「自分を大切にしていない」と責められました。 年を取ったのかな？ いつからか自分のための買い物がだんだん減ってきました。娘や他の人が気に入ったものがあればすぐ買ってあげるのですが、自分自身が欲しいと思うものは少なくなってきました。 それとも、面倒だと感じているのかもしれません。お金でも時間でも精力でも、一つのことに使えば他のことに使えません。最近、スティーブ・ジョブズの行動がよく理解できるようになりました。毎日同じ服を着て過ごすのはとても便利です。私も最近、同じ服を毎週固定して、朝に考えずに適当な一着を選んで着るようにしました。そうすると、その分の時間をスピーキング練習に少しでも使えます。 それ以外に、女性にとって買い物の選択と決断にはとても時間がかかります。普段使いできるかどうか、他の服と合うかどうか、値段は 妥当かどうかなど、様々なことを考えて判断する必要があり、脳が壊れそうになります。最近はその時間と精力もないように感じています。 シンプルな生活が良いとは思うのですが、でも実は本当に欲しいものは単なるバッグやアクセサリーではなく、もっと大きくて手の届かないものなのかもしれません。今の生活はただの自己満足なのかも。 ## Images 1. [View Image 1](https://cdn-cn.hellotalk8.com/ht-cn-1312929133/mmnt/1/250616/1/144594017/0/0/728a9931a5b618c5d4480c741cd870e1.jpg) 2. [View Image 2](https://cdn-cn.hellotalk8.com/ht-cn-1312929133/mmnt/1/250616/1/144594017/0/0/a65242763c4ef1165660e539c656b1a8.jpg) ## Learning Language **Japanese** ## Topics #135243 #152591 ## Metadata - **Posted**: 6/16/2025 - **View on HelloTalk**: [https://www.hellotalk.com/moments/t1NGMDtWxOZjHD.md](https://www.hellotalk.com/moments/t1NGMDtWxOZjHD.md) ## Engagement - **Comments**: 2 --- ## Language Exchange Partners - [English Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/english.md): Connect with native English speakers - [Spanish Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/spanish.md): Connect with native Spanish speakers - [French Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/french.md): Connect with native French speakers - [Japanese Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/japanese.md): Connect with native Japanese speakers - [German Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/german.md): Connect with native German speakers - [Chinese Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/chinese.md): Connect with native Chinese speakers - [Italian Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/italian.md): Connect with native Italian speakers - [Russian Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/russian.md): Connect with native Russian speakers - [Portuguese Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/portuguese.md): Connect with native Portuguese speakers - [Arabic Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/arabic.md): Connect with native Arabic speakers - [Hindi Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/hindi.md): Connect with native Hindi speakers - [Korean Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/korean.md): Connect with native Korean speakers ## Learn Languages - [Learn English](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/english.md): Master English with native speakers - [Learn Spanish](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/spanish.md): Master Spanish with native speakers - [Learn French](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/french.md): Master French with native speakers - [Learn Japanese](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/japanese.md): Master Japanese with native speakers - [Learn German](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/german.md): Master German with native speakers - [Learn Chinese](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/chinese.md): Master Chinese with native speakers - [Learn Italian](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/italian.md): Master Italian with native speakers - [Learn Russian](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/russian.md): Master Russian with native speakers - [Learn Portuguese](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/portuguese.md): Master Portuguese with native speakers - [Learn Arabic](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/arabic.md): Master Arabic with native speakers - [Learn Korean](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/korean.md): Master Korean with native speakers - [Learn Hindi](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/hindi.md): Master Hindi with native speakers ## Partners by Country - [USA Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/usa.md): Find language exchange partners in United States - [UK Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/uk.md): Find language exchange partners in United Kingdom - [Canada Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/canada.md): Find language exchange partners in Canada - [Australia Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/australia.md): Find language exchange partners in Australia - [Japan Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/japan.md): Find language exchange partners in Japan - [Korea Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/korea.md): Find language exchange partners in Korea - [China Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/china.md): Find language exchange partners in China - [Spain Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/spain.md): Find language exchange partners in Spain - [France Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/france.md): Find language exchange partners in France - [Germany Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/germany.md): Find language exchange partners in Germany - [Brazil Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/brazil.md): Find language exchange partners in Brazil - [India Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/india.md): Find language exchange partners in India ## Resources - [Download iOS App](https://apps.apple.com/app/hellotalk/id557130558): Get HelloTalk on the App Store - [Download Android App](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.hellotalk): Get HelloTalk on Google Play - [AI Language Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Explore AI-powered language learning tools - [About HelloTalk](https://www.hellotalk.com/about.md): Learn more about our mission - [Blog](https://www.hellotalk.com/blog.md): Language learning tips and stories - [Help Center](https://www.hellotalk.com/faq.md): Get answers to common questions --- *HelloTalk connects you with native speakers worldwide for authentic language practice and cultural exchange.*