# From Necessity to Tradition: A Mother's Love in Every Birthday Cake

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## Author

- **Name**: Ren
- **Username**: @Rendlc

## Content

**コメントで英語の発音を聞けます**
**English pronunciation in comments**

「知恵は不足から生まれる」——そんな言葉を聞いたことがありますか？

卵はなかなか見つからない。それに、高すぎる。
だから、ケーキも高い。
そして、今週末は息子の誕生日。

「どんなケーキがいい？」と聞いたら、息子は迷わず言った。
「ママのケーキ。」

その言葉を聞いて、ふと気づいた。
私は毎年、彼の誕生日ケーキを焼いてきたんだ。

最初はコロナでお店が開いていなかったから。
次の年も、その次の年も、いろんな理由で作ることになった。
気づけば、それがいつものことになっていた。

今年はチョコレートシフォンケーキを焼いた。
このケーキは、少しずつ材料を加えて作る。
一度に全部入れずに、様子を見ながら、やさしく混ぜていく。

まるで、子育てみたい。

少し足して、確認して、卵白がちゃんとツノを立てるか見て、
混ぜすぎないように、でも足りないこともないように。

そして、焼く。
子どもを送り出すように、オーブンに入れて、祈る。
「ちゃんと焼けますように。」
「この子の味が、誰かの好きな味になりますように。」

でも、親はどうだろう？

毎年、味は少しずつ変わっているのかな。
去年より、おいしくなっているのかな。

私は、少しだけ上手になった気がする。
チョコの味を深くするには、エスプレッソパウダーと塩を入れるといいって学んだ。

でも、まだ知らないことがある。

たとえば、息子が私の成長を見ているということ。


“Wisdom comes from scarcity.” Have you ever heard that phrase?

Eggs are hard to find. And even when you do, they’re too expensive.
Which means cake is expensive too.
And this weekend is my son’s birthday.

When I asked him what kind of cake he wanted, he answered without hesitation.
“Mommy’s cake.”

And in that moment, I realized—
I’ve made his birthday cake every year.

The first time, it was because stores were closed during COVID.
The next year, and the year after that, there was always something.
And before I knew it, it became tradition.

This year, I made a chocolate chiffon cake.
If you’ve ever made one, you know—
you don’t mix everything in at once.
You fold in ingredients slowly,
gently, checking as you go.
It’s a bit like parenting.

You add a little here, a little there,
check if the egg whites form stiff peaks,
make sure it’s not underdone or overmixed.

Then you bake.
You place it in the oven like sending a child into the world, and you hope.
“Please rise.”
“Please be loved.”

But what about the parent?

I wonder if the flavor changes a little every year.
If each one is better than the last.

As a baker, I think I’ve improved.
I’ve learned that espresso powder and salt deepen the chocolate’s flavor.

But there are still things I don’t know.

Like realizing—
my son is watching me grow, too.

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- **Posted**: 3/23/2025
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