When a person makes a mistake, even just once, it will stick and be considered bad even if he does other good things. Excessive emotions will not be able to control small quarrels that occur, misunderstandings will not be able to be straightened out, and words become very hurtful, and a person's maturity is questioned. It is difficult to unite two different characters properly, there must be someone who is calm, understanding and caring, there must be someone who gives in and lowers their ego, that is true self-maturity. Perfection will only be achieved by those who are willing to learn from each other and understand each other, because differences are inevitable