I don't know what to say, but people are so selfish. I am not victimizing myself, but the hard fact is people always find someone over you or prefer someone over you to talk to. This never being the chosen one thing is there in friendship too! I am not a person who can say, "Please choose me." I can't even express myself anymore. It is very difficult to get female friends. And males, on the other hand, same story. Living alone in your dream country is great, but getting friends here is so difficult. No matter how good you are, no matter how hard you try, you are just treated as an option. I get a message from people when they don't have any other people to talk to. And when someone else from their desired place or some fantasy world appears, boom! You start getting ignored.