Western culture and dating culture I wanted to write about this, because some people for eastern counties seem to get hurt by people from western countries! In the West, dating someone isn’t always seen as being serious, so there’s a decent amount of boys or girls, that don’t mind playing around with other peoples’ feelings and then leave them when they get bored! For example, if your partner is from the west and they’re serious about being with you, they would come meet you first, because, it shows that they’re genuinely being serious about you and care about you! Also, if an older guy messages a girl a lot younger than them, a decent amount of the time it’s because they’ve bad intentions! Also, there’s a toxic culture in western countries compared to eastern countries, where people don’t care about hurting the other person if it makes them feel better or it’s fun! Not all people are like this though! The rest of them are lovely, caring and funny people to be around! So, if you want to know how they really feel, you may have to read between the lines, such as the kind of words the use, how the sound when they speak with, are they being honest with you or do they speak about you with your friends! I hope this helps you and please also be careful of people with bad intentions or scammers!