Something I can't stand Is dishonest people. Lying to my face is something I hate the most. For example lying to spare my feelings I don't like that either because if I don't know I have an issue how can i fix it? For example when I was starting to gain weight my friend told me honestly and nicely." I want to be honest with you I've noticed you've been eating alot and are starting to put on weight and I don't want you to get fat. And be sad because you gained all your weight back again." Something like this I appreciate because if I had a friend who noticed I was getting fat and didn't tell me until I was fat I'd be passed. I appreciate a friend who tells me before I become 309 pounds. Anyways and it worse when someone is lying to you and you find out after this hurts even more. I'd prefer the harsh honest truth so I can move on. 🙃🙃🙃 I've always been this way it's better to head the truth and live in reality and not have people lie for your sake. Be based in reality. Even if the truth isn't what you want to hear. "Honesty is the best policy." Be none by your honesty. These are some of the best traits. Now of course don't be mean!!! When you think somethings important don't tell somebody harshly you never do that you explain the truth as nicely as you can. You never tell someone something to hurt them and be like well that's the truth. You put things nicely. How'd you like it if instead of saying I think you're gaining a little weight they put you down harshly? And say you're fat af! You wouldn't so when explaining a harsh truth pick your words careless and not harshly. Whether it's telling a friend about there weight, a truth you have to tell them, something they can fix or work on without lying about it, or something you want to be honest about, or an issue they have you noticed they could work on. For example you have a but of a problem with this or that and I think you should communicate clearly etc.