# Understanding Why We Repeat and How We Make Life's Decisions

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## Author

- **Name**: Martin Roedl
- **Username**: @martinroedl

## Content

🔄 I might be repeating myself (can I do other way???) and sometimes it is necessary to say something 10 times in 10 different ways, until one is “understood”, or, interpreted. Why 10 times or more? Circumstances, context; Meanings - the ones I want to say and the ones being understood…
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⏳ Every second we stay in front of a decision. Will I go right or left? Forward or backward? Will I do this or that? Shall I stay or shall I leave…?
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☝🏻 Yet, based on what are we making decisions? Every hour, every day… What are our decision criteria? Are they ours or did we take them over from someone else? Mother, father, husband, friend, boyfriend, girlfriend?
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🙌🏼 Sometimes we were not taught to be able to make decisions by ourselves - we were given instructions our all life long. How should we then be able to decide for ourselves?
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🎛️ It is a rather complex situation. How shall I decide if I do not know what I want, right? Or, do I know what I want but not how to get it?
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1️⃣ Sometimes it is better just to make 1 step, rather than to know the entire path towards the final station… One step at a time.

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- **Posted**: 2/13/2024
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