# 《厌女》by上野千鹤子 厌女症是什么——讨厌女性？可是很多有厌女症的男性其实喜欢女性。为何明明“厌女”，却又“喜欢... ## Quick Navigation - [Find Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners.md): Discover language exchange partners worldwide - [Language Exchange](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange.md): Practice with native speakers worldwide - [Moments](https://www.hellotalk.com/moments.md): Share your language learning journey - [Topics](https://www.hellotalk.com/topics.md): Explore trending topics and discussions - [Chat & Messaging](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/chat.md): Text, voice, and video conversations - [Voice Rooms](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/voiceroom.md): Join live audio conversations - [Live Streaming](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/live-streaming.md): Interactive classes and language sessions - [Certified Teachers](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/certified-teachers.md): Learn from professional language instructors - [Immersive Learning](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/immersive-learning.md): Learn everywhere with instant translations - [Translation Tools](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/translation.md): Instant translation between any languages - [AI-Powered Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Access specialized learning tools - [Language AI Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Discover our AI-powered language learning applications - [All Features](https://www.hellotalk.com/features.md): Explore all learning features and tools - [Download](https://www.hellotalk.com/download.md): Get HelloTalk on iOS and Android ## Author - **Name**: Linda - **Username**: @Hello_Lindaaaaa ## Content 《厌女》by上野千鹤子 厌女症是什么——讨厌女性？可是很多有厌女症的男性其实喜欢女性。为何明明“厌女”，却又“喜欢”女性。或许有女性发问：“我自己也是女生，怎么会厌女？” 那么，什么是厌女症？厌女症的表现形式在男女身上并不对称。在男生身上表现为“女性蔑视”，在女生身上则表现为“自我厌恶”。生活中不乏有女生说过“我要是个男的就好了”，职场中的女性有一次没有抱怨过自己生为女性而吃亏吗？而男性的厌女症则是当男性证明自己是个男人时，不得不依赖女性来满足欲望，对这个事实的怨与怒。 所以，男人的价值由什么决定——是在男人世界里的霸权争斗中决定的。男人喜欢在男人世界里的霸权争斗中，让自己的实力得到其他男人的承认、评价和赞赏。现实生活常听到一句话“票子、车子、房子有了，妹子不就自动来了”，而影视文学中，“男人喜欢成为英雄，女人喜欢成为英雄的男人”这样的设定已经成为模板了。 那男性对女性的蔑视又从何谈起呢？男性绝不会将女性视作与自己同等的性的主体，而是将女性客体化、他者化，即歧视、蔑视。男人的同性社会欲望（是指男人之间不带性的关系，即男人之间相互认同的欲望），在这个由主体成员构成的世界里，若出现同性恋者，可能出现主体者（简单来说是Boys love中性主体性）之间相互客体化，所以必须被禁忌。这也是直男恐惧Gay的原因。既然男人抱团时由恐同来维系的，就要将女性客体化。 ## Images 1. 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