" Each one has what they deserve." No! Each one has what they accept! This is the truth: you have the love you accept, the relationship you accept, the friendship you accept. If something in your life is not aligned with your values, desires and principles, it does not mean that you "deserve" this reality-means that it is somehow allowing it to remain. Do not get used to what is bad for you. Do not normalize what diminishes you. Because in the end it is not about deserving, but what you choose to tolerate. When you look more affectionately and realize that you deserve more-love, more respect, more careful care changes inside you. And this internal change reflects on what you accept outside. Recognize its value. Because carrying the burden of always being understanding can, without realizing it, lead you to accept less than it really deserves.