# “She’s such a pick me girl” Pick me 들어보셨죠

## Quick Navigation

- [Find Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners.md): Discover language exchange partners worldwide
- [Language Exchange](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange.md): Practice with native speakers worldwide
- [Moments](https://www.hellotalk.com/moments.md): Share your language learning journey
- [Topics](https://www.hellotalk.com/topics.md): Explore trending topics and discussions

- [Chat & Messaging](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/chat.md): Text, voice, and video conversations
- [Voice Rooms](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/voiceroom.md): Join live audio conversations
- [Live Streaming](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/live-streaming.md): Interactive classes and language sessions
- [Certified Teachers](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/certified-teachers.md): Learn from professional language instructors
- [Immersive Learning](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/immersive-learning.md): Learn everywhere with instant translations
- [Translation Tools](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/translation.md): Instant translation between any languages

- [AI-Powered Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Access specialized learning tools
- [Language AI Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Discover our AI-powered language learning applications
- [All Features](https://www.hellotalk.com/features.md): Explore all learning features and tools

- [Download](https://www.hellotalk.com/download.md): Get HelloTalk on iOS and Android

## Author

- **Name**: 지구인Earthling
- **Username**: @ysuffyEyuoosypfi

## Content

“She’s such a pick me girl” 

Pick me 들어보셨죠? 여자한테만 아니라 남자한테도 쓰이는 말인데 한국어로는 남미새 혹은 여미새라고 하더라고요 ㅋㅋ 

이런 사람이야 뭐 어디 가든 다 있는데 제일 웃긴건 자기 빼고 다 알아요 ㅋㅋ 진짜 본인이 그렇다는 걸 그리고 엄청 티 난다는 걸 모르나요? ..

글구 이건 개인 경험이지만 한국의 pick me 여자들이 진짜 역대급이더라구여 ㅋㅋ 여미새인 남자들이야 사실 여기나 저기나 다 넘 뻔하고 비슷해서 큰 차이가 없는데
여자애들이 .. 와우.. ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 보기만해도 내가 오글거려서 죽겠어요..

참고로 저는 이성친구 있는 건 나쁘다고 전혀 생각 안하고 저도 당연히 남사친 있는데.. 친구면 넘으면 안되는 선이 있는데 남미새들이 걍 거의 모든 남자들한테 행동이.. 말해 뭐해 여러분도 아시잖아요 .. 남자들이 모르려나? 
잘 모르는 남자인데도 웃으면서 자꾸 어깨 치고 어떻게든 스킨쉽 하려구 손 내밀고.. 만약 오른쪽에 여자가 앉아 있고 왼쪽에 남자가 앉아 있으면 몸 자체가 그냥 남자쪽에 돌려져있고 등등 너무나 많죠.. 

예를 들어.. 그냥 친군데 남자가 신발 끈이 풀렸는데 저라면 그냥 “신발 끈 풀렸네 묶어” 라고 말해줬는데 옆에 있는 여자가 갑자기 무릎 꿇고 “위험하다 묶어줄게!“ 이러면서 묶어줌.. 🤯 둘이 서로 좋아할 수도 있다 라고 하실 수 있는데 전혀 아님. 여자가 다른 남자 좋아한다고 그 날 내내 말하고 어케 꼬실까 하고 이랬고 남자도 연애중.
근데 웃긴 건 남자도 여미새라서 좋아 죽음 ㅡㅡ 
남자가 이러면 사실 f***boy 라고 하긴 하죠.. 

아무튼 그냥 본 거 중에 가장 최근 예시일 뿐.. 저는 정말 이해가 안 갑니다.. 저는 남사친이랑 단 둘이서 놀긴 하지만 놀아도 스킨쉽 절대 안하고 해도 진짜 여우짓 느낌으로 하는 게 아니라 막 때림 친구도 그러고. 그러니까 그런거는 정말 지구에 둘만 남았어도 죽어도 사귀거나 그런거 싫다는 이성들끼리 가능하다고 생각해요. 그정도 친한 이상 친구 아니면 저는 정말 스킨쉽 안하고 남자가 좀 다른 목적이 있다 싶으면 친구 안해요. 
다른 여자애가 남사친한테 자기 새 미니스커트 샀다고 사진 몇개나 보내줌.. 다리 다 보이고 누가봐도 좀 야한 느낌 나는.. 저런 사람 특징은 진심으로 그 상대방한테 관심 있거나 그런거 아님 그냥 관심 받는 걸 좋아하고 꼬시고 플러팅하는 과정만 즐기는 거임. 

다시 한번 말하지만 저는 이해불가.. 그리고 그런 사람 완전 완전 질색. 그런 여자애들이랑 같은 여잔데 친해질 수도 없거든요.. 일단 저 애들이 여자보다 남자랑 노는 것 좋아하니까… 그러니까 친구 사귀기 너무 힘듧니다..ㅋㅋ

남미새 여자랑 못 친해지고.. 여미새나 f***boy들도 친구인척하지만 사실 기회만 생기면 바로 잡을 준비 돼있고 자꾸 다른 목적 가지니까 친구 못하겠고… 
그래도 친하고 착한 친구들 2-3이라도 있어서 다행이다.. 그 와중에 성격도 등등 다 맞아야되는데 에휴..

이래서 애기때 친구 사귀기 더 쉬운 듯..

## Learning Language

**Korean**

## Metadata

- **Posted**: 8/22/2025
- **View on HelloTalk**: [https://www.hellotalk.com/moments/LJWLyjTQITXNHD.md](https://www.hellotalk.com/moments/LJWLyjTQITXNHD.md)

## Engagement

- **Comments**: 11
---

## Language Exchange Partners

- [English Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/english.md): Connect with native English speakers
- [Spanish Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/spanish.md): Connect with native Spanish speakers
- [French Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/french.md): Connect with native French speakers
- [Japanese Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/japanese.md): Connect with native Japanese speakers
- [German Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/german.md): Connect with native German speakers
- [Chinese Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/chinese.md): Connect with native Chinese speakers
- [Italian Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/italian.md): Connect with native Italian speakers
- [Russian Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/russian.md): Connect with native Russian speakers
- [Portuguese Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/portuguese.md): Connect with native Portuguese speakers
- [Arabic Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/arabic.md): Connect with native Arabic speakers
- [Hindi Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/hindi.md): Connect with native Hindi speakers
- [Korean Exchange Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange/korean.md): Connect with native Korean speakers

## Learn Languages

- [Learn English](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/english.md): Master English with native speakers
- [Learn Spanish](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/spanish.md): Master Spanish with native speakers
- [Learn French](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/french.md): Master French with native speakers
- [Learn Japanese](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/japanese.md): Master Japanese with native speakers
- [Learn German](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/german.md): Master German with native speakers
- [Learn Chinese](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/chinese.md): Master Chinese with native speakers
- [Learn Italian](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/italian.md): Master Italian with native speakers
- [Learn Russian](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/russian.md): Master Russian with native speakers
- [Learn Portuguese](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/portuguese.md): Master Portuguese with native speakers
- [Learn Arabic](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/arabic.md): Master Arabic with native speakers
- [Learn Korean](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/korean.md): Master Korean with native speakers
- [Learn Hindi](https://www.hellotalk.com/learn/hindi.md): Master Hindi with native speakers

## Partners by Country

- [USA Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/usa.md): Find language exchange partners in United States
- [UK Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/uk.md): Find language exchange partners in United Kingdom
- [Canada Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/canada.md): Find language exchange partners in Canada
- [Australia Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/australia.md): Find language exchange partners in Australia
- [Japan Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/japan.md): Find language exchange partners in Japan
- [Korea Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/korea.md): Find language exchange partners in Korea
- [China Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/china.md): Find language exchange partners in China
- [Spain Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/spain.md): Find language exchange partners in Spain
- [France Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/france.md): Find language exchange partners in France
- [Germany Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/germany.md): Find language exchange partners in Germany
- [Brazil Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/brazil.md): Find language exchange partners in Brazil
- [India Language Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/countries/india.md): Find language exchange partners in India

## Resources

- [Download iOS App](https://apps.apple.com/app/hellotalk/id557130558): Get HelloTalk on the App Store
- [Download Android App](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.hellotalk): Get HelloTalk on Google Play
- [AI Language Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Explore AI-powered language learning tools
- [About HelloTalk](https://www.hellotalk.com/about.md): Learn more about our mission
- [Blog](https://www.hellotalk.com/blog.md): Language learning tips and stories
- [Help Center](https://www.hellotalk.com/faq.md): Get answers to common questions

---

*HelloTalk connects you with native speakers worldwide for authentic language practice and cultural exchange.*