# 东亚人喜欢纠缠不清的爱，喜欢痛苦的，不纯粹的，掺杂着恨的爱，因为这就是他们，从原生家庭中得到的爱。 这句话是否有道... ## Quick Navigation - [Find Partners](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners.md): Discover language exchange partners worldwide - [Language Exchange](https://www.hellotalk.com/partners/exchange.md): Practice with native speakers worldwide - [Moments](https://www.hellotalk.com/moments.md): Share your language learning journey - [Topics](https://www.hellotalk.com/topics.md): Explore trending topics and discussions - [Chat & Messaging](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/chat.md): Text, voice, and video conversations - [Voice Rooms](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/voiceroom.md): Join live audio conversations - [Live Streaming](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/live-streaming.md): Interactive classes and language sessions - [Certified Teachers](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/certified-teachers.md): Learn from professional language instructors - [Immersive Learning](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/immersive-learning.md): Learn everywhere with instant translations - [Translation Tools](https://www.hellotalk.com/features/translation.md): Instant translation between any languages - [AI-Powered Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Access specialized learning tools - [Language AI Apps](https://www.hellotalk.com/aiapps.md): Discover our AI-powered language learning applications - [All Features](https://www.hellotalk.com/features.md): Explore all learning features and tools - [Download](https://www.hellotalk.com/download.md): Get HelloTalk on iOS and Android ## Author - **Name**: Yoka - **Username**: @e_yoka_65710 ## Content 东亚人喜欢纠缠不清的爱，喜欢痛苦的，不纯粹的，掺杂着恨的爱，因为这就是他们，从原生家庭中得到的爱。 这句话是否有道理，暂且可以抱着存疑的态度来看待。 东亚家庭的爱夹杂着一种“生长痛”。 东亚家庭的给与是一种不痛快的全身心付出。 比如“从不会放任小孩痛快的玩游戏，看电视”，计深远也是以父母的观点在计深远，从不是单纯为了满足孩子。所以父母给与的爱总是夹杂着钝痛。 中国人骨子里向往的爱是温汤浸玉，缓和的含蓄而带有真诚，谦郁的爱。因为我们小的时候对幸福的概念是两个人白首不离，携手相伴一生。 健康的爱像柳絮，轻松，温暖，隐藏着勃勃生机，我趋向于它，像飞蛾趋向烛火，但我知道它不会将我灼烧，因此刻我正处于烈火之中。 “温汤浸玉”是一个汉语成语，常用来比喻对珍贵物品的细心呵护，或者对有才华的人给予适当的培养和关爱，就像用温水浸泡美玉，使其温润光泽。 ## Images 1. 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