They said: Have your babies before you turn 30. But no one said to have them with someone who will hold you when you fall apart at 2 a.m. Or someone who has the emotional strength to say “Go take a shower, I’ve got the baby”. I used to think that timing was everything, but I’ve seen what it feels like to raise a child beside someone who makes you feel invisible. The right person won’t be there for the baby, they will be there for you. 그리고 그것은 기다릴 가치가 있는 종류의 사랑이다. This kid is not my nephew, my cousin nor my kid 😊. We just talked about dinosaurs and megalodons and anacondas and jungles and that’s when we got close 🤭. And unexpectedly lay down on my lap.