# First Crush Anxiety: A Young Person's Battle with Overwhelming Feelings

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## Author

- **Name**: Tays Moraira 
- **Username**: @tays_moraira

## Content

Snälla 🥺 jag behöver råd, jag vet inte om någon annan har varit med om det här. Jag är ung och oerfaren. Jag har börjat gilla en kille och själva tanken skrämmer mig och gör mig jätteorolig, för det är så många känslor som får mig att vilja dra mig undan. Å ena sidan gillar jag honom och jag älskar att prata med honom, men å andra sidan vill jag ta avstånd och hoppas att känslorna försvinner. Jag går till gymmet och under halva passet tänker jag på honom och känner mig dum 😥. När jag är på jobbet tänker jag ibland på honom också och jag vet inte riktigt hur jag ska få bort det här. Jag behöver råd och tips för att komma över det. Borde jag ta avstånd från honom? Borde jag börja föreställa mig honom med en annan tjej eller som om han hade en flickvän? Hur gör jag för att se honom som en enkel vän?

Please 🥺 I need advice, I don’t know if this has happened to anyone else. I’m young and inexperienced. I’ve started to like a guy and the idea itself scares me and makes me feel very overwhelmed, because there are so many feelings that make me want to distance myself. On one hand, I like him and I love talking to him, but on the other hand, I want to step back and let these feelings fade away. I go to the gym and during half of my workout I’m thinking about him and I feel silly 😥. When I’m at work, sometimes I think of him too, and I don’t really know how to get rid of this. I need advice and tips on how to move on. Should I distance myself from him? Should I start imagining him with another girl or as if he had a girlfriend? How do I make myself see him as just a friend?

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## Topics

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## Metadata

- **Posted**: 8/20/2025
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