10 nice ways to refuse and say (no) Without embarrassing the person in front of you: • I really appreciate you asking, but I can't right now. • Thanks for thinking of me, but I have to pass this time. • I wish I could help, but it's not possible for me right now. • I'm honored you asked, but I'm not able to. • That sounds great, but i have to decline for now. • I'd love to, but I'm tied up at the moment. • I don't think I can give it the time it deserves. • l'm sorry, but I can't make it work this time. • I'm flattered, but I have to say no. • Unfortunately, I have to turn it down for now.