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马玿 即 idk

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2019.04.20 15:05

上个星期我爸爸死了。他八十七岁。他教我很多。我一直想他。And my Chinese isn't good enough

to convey my feelings, so here's some English practice...

As some of you already know, my dad passed away last week at 87. He was surrounded by family and friends and thankfully was still living a good life up until his second to last day.

It's rather amazing to me looking at his life through pictures now and seeing him change, develop interests, and grow with age. His early life and mine have remarkable similarities from growing up on the East side of Columbus to studying aerospace engineering at Ohio State. From there he moved to Denver to open a Hi-Fi shop, something I also have a fondness for. Afterwards came a string of aerospace engineering contract gigs which saw him moving to and from every corner of the United States designing and analyzing structures for vehicles like the 737 and 777, missiles like the Tomahawk, and even spacecraft like the LEM (Lunar Excursion Module). Yep, he helped safely land astronauts on the moon!

While I always brag to my nerd friends about my dad's professional accomplishments, of course I'm most proud about the work he did as a father. Though he was already 55 and 60 when my brother and I were born that didn't stop him from bringing a younger man's attitude and energy to retirement and fatherhood. He always said we kept him feeling young at heart. And with his age I was always fearful when looking ahead that he wouldn't be there. He always made it. He made it to every match, graduation, competition, celebration, and every other important life event of mine.

RIP Dad. I will always miss you and will forever be grateful of the time we had together
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  • Joe 2019.04.20 15:12

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    Sorry to hear that again, God bless you!
  • Mei 2019.04.20 15:12

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    Your dad is a great man. You look like him.
  • Fiona 2019.04.20 15:28

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    sorry to hear that,RIP!🙏🙏
  • FinalCurtainFalls 2019.04.20 15:34

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    Condolences
  • 马玿 即 idk 2019.04.20 15:37

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    @Joe Thank you again Joe
  • 马玿 即 idk 2019.04.20 15:37

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    @Mei Thanks, I agree!
  • 马玿 即 idk 2019.04.20 15:37

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    @Fiona Thank you
  • 马玿 即 idk 2019.04.20 15:37

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    @FinalCurtainFalls I appreciate it
  • Vivian 2019.04.20 15:45

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    @马玿 即 idk 我也很难过,我理解失去亲人的痛苦,希望你不要太难过,你的爸爸将以另一种方式陪伴你。他是个很优秀的父亲。I am sorry to hear that. I understand the pain of losing loved ones. I hope that you will not be too upset. Your father will accompany you in another way. He is a very good father.
  • Fujian 2019.04.20 15:45

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    节哀顺变
  • 马玿 即 idk 2019.04.20 15:47

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    @Vivian Thank you Vivian, that is very thoughtful. I feel like as long as I have my memories of him then he's still around in some way.
  • April 2019.04.20 17:00

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    I am sorry to hear that. Every father in the world is so similar, they love their children deeply. He will be always be with you and support you.
  • 十年一梦 2019.04.20 18:55

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    他只是去了另外一个世界,人本无生死,只是换了个皮囊,又重新开始。
  • Vivian 2019.04.20 23:18

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    @马玿 即 idk 是的,你说的很好,他是最想看到你们每天过的开心,收获幸福的那个人。你和哥哥开心他就开心。只要心中有爱,你的父亲一直都在
  • kather1ne 2019.04.20 23:50

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    So sorry to hear that
  • JoJo 2019.04.21 00:02

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    节哀顺变!愿他在天堂一切安好!愿你和你的家人一切都健康、平安❤️
  • T. 2019.04.21 01:58

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    🙏🙏🙏
  • Helena 2019.04.21 02:10

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    Your dad is a great father. He will be around you as long as you can remember him.
  • Crystal 2019.04.21 02:38

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    Marshall, feel sad to hear that. RIP your Dad. He is living in your heart forever
  • Big beautiful 2019.04.21 02:56

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    Hug you
  • Rebecca 2019.04.21 03:35

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    节哀!🙏🙏愿死者安息,生者坚强!!
  • jessie 2019.04.21 14:23

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    RIP
  • Backy 2019.04.21 17:56

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    So sorry to hear that...😔HUG
  • Wendy Z 2019.04.22 08:24

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    Wow you have a great dad! he is never gone because he's always in your heart 😍
  • M S Y 2019.04.22 09:47

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    There is no sickness in heaven, he lives in your heart forever.
  • 木木 2019.04.22 11:22

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    这是一位很棒的父亲👍
  • 金Krystal 2019.04.24 00:51

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    💪
  • jole 2019.04.26 17:56

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    这是一位伟大的父亲!
  • ElizabethL 2019.04.26 19:04

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    What a great life he had.RIP
  • 春flower 2019.04.26 19:20

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    亲爱的,如果你难过,给你一个拥抱。好难过。
  • coco 2019.04.26 20:21

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    I will hug you
  • Anna 2019.05.02 14:01

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    Sorry to hear that
  • Muriel 2019.05.06 23:53

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    上个星期我爸爸了。

    上个星期我爸爸去世了。

  • Nicole 2019.05.07 13:48

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    节哀顺变
  • Ying 2019.05.07 15:04

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    节哀!你爸爸年轻的时候很帅,你很像他
  • lea 2019.05.11 19:43

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    Great father. Also I am a little surprised he was around 60years old while you came to the world.
  • 马玿 即 idk 2019.05.12 02:24

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    @lea Yeah haha I always had the oldest dad of all my friends by a lot. I think it was normal to him because his dad was 50 when he was born. So if my grandpa was alive, he'd be nearly 140
  • Jessica 2019.05.14 14:23

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    Every father is great, they use time with their children, to give his own father, have to say your father was young is very handsome, this is my evaluation 😊 as a girl ,Live well, live happily and happily every day. That's what your father wants to see.👍👍
  • Maggie 2019.07.04 01:35

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    It's really proud to have a dad like yours.
  • 去看海 2019.08.04 05:18

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    我的爸爸在我14岁那年死了!请不要难过

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