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Milly

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CN

2020.10.18 08:59

Hello, I have decided that I’m going to be taking an indefinite

break from HelloTalk, maybe for a while or maybe forever in order to protect my own mental health. Sadly, although my chinese has improved immensely since using this app, my mental health has rapidly declined due to the encounters I’ve had. Throughout my time on this app, each time I post, a man comments something rude, critical, hurtful or nasty, I also receive abusive messages daily. My words are often twisted and above everything else, I receive unwanted sexual messages despite my clear messages that I do not want them. I hope that the moderators if HelloTalk can make this a more positive place in the future, but for now I really need to protect my own mental health, which has rapidly declined. I blocked these people but everyday brings new people that are hurtful. The experience I’ve had with people on this app has caused me to become an emotional wreck and an extremely anxious person, with low confidence. I need to spend time healing the hurt that the some people in this app has caused to my health. Thanks for improving my chinese, and maybe I’ll speak to u guys in the future, but for now, goodbye! I hope that people can try to make this a positive space - and remember always be kind!

Milly.
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Comments

  • K猫咪. 2020.10.18 09:01

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    Wow, you're beautiful.
  • 下班急先锋 2020.10.18 09:03

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    ignore that shit
  • Brandon 2020.10.18 09:03

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    Don’t give a shxt about those fools who put forward some stupid comments. Enjoy you time while taking a break, sincerely hope everything is going well. Best wishes.
  • Norman Zhan 2020.10.18 09:03

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    Those people are disgusting
  • Knight 2020.10.18 09:03

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    Is someone harassing you? Or is it mental stress?
  • John Gao 2020.10.18 09:07

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    You are too beautiful. So you can change your picture to a normal woman. You can still stay here. 中国有句俗语:木秀于林,风必摧之
  • 哇啊哦 2020.10.18 09:08

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    you look like a princess
  • Andy 2020.10.18 09:08

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    I respect that what you do。good luck to you。I will miss you
  • Monica 2020.10.18 09:11

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    You are wonderful
  • Hussain 胡诚 2020.10.18 09:14

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    Ignore stupid people
  • xxy 2020.10.18 09:19

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    @John Gao I understand you are trying to help her. But it's her right to post beautiful pictures. And it has nothing to do with whether she is beautiful. Those who sent inappropriate texts should be blamed.
  • 大华 Da Hua 2020.10.18 09:20

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    so beautiful
  • jichen 2020.10.18 09:22

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    Sorry for that
  • ユウイチ 2020.10.18 09:26

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    Take your time and look forward to see you back here😊
  • 大华 Da Hua 2020.10.18 09:28

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    不要离开。记住美好人或事,不要理会那些人渣,世界总有阳光照射不到的地方,相信大多数人是好的。你也是美好的!让自己内心强大起来!
  • John Gao 2020.10.18 09:31

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    @xxy Haha,it just a joke. Anyone can follow their heart. Feeling should come from inner center. 为什么要在意别人的行为,拉黑就好了。人生即主观,境由心生
  • Rena 2020.10.18 09:41

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    Yeah. The princess need to keep her unique and beautiful world clean.❤
  • Amos 2020.10.18 09:43

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    It's so sad that you suffer with this
  • Sophia 2020.10.18 09:44

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    I'm so sorry to hear that. And I can relate to this. Hope you will get better soon❤
  • Sophia 2020.10.18 09:47

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    @xxy I couldn't agree with you more. I was going to reply to that person's comments. And then i saw your messages, you just said what i wanted to say.👏
  • Lolo 2020.10.18 10:00

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    Those people are really bad . I hope you recover soon .I wish you always be happy .
  • shelly 2020.10.18 10:02

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    Don't take these people to heart. There are many people who like you.
  • Caroline 2020.10.18 10:23

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    Some things are really helpless, sometimes words will hurt the heart like a sharp sword, I hope you can get better as soon as possible, I hope your heart can slowly become stronger. After all, love you forever malicious people who will hurt you more than 🥰 💞
  • Sunshine 2020.10.18 10:54

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    Don't leave, lots people like you. It doesn't matter who you are, where are you from. The ability to triumph begins with you. Always.
  • Calvin Wang 2020.10.18 11:27

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    😳😳😳
  • John_ielts8888 2020.10.18 12:43

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    there are still a group of people who are willing to learn English and want to improve their language skill. However, there are some other people in this app as you mentioned in the post. You should focus more on the former one, which would be much more sensible.
  • Jason 2020.10.18 12:53

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    take care of yourself
  • Owen 2020.10.18 12:55

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    @Milly :There will always be disgusting people on the online platform sending all kinds of messages. You don't need to pay attention to it. After all, most people still sensibly regard this platform as a place for learning and communicating languages.
  • Yy悦 2020.10.18 13:47

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    😭😭❤❤❤
  • 阿宏 2020.10.18 15:32

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    她己走了,发信息看不到了,走之前给大家留了张照片,让大家不要忘记她,哈哈
  • Abi อบี 아비 アビまる 2020.10.18 15:47

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    Rest well baby 🥺❤
  • sici 2020.10.18 17:17

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    Best wish for you ❤
  • Ash 阿什利 2020.10.18 19:55

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    There are always some idiots online. We all encountered them. I've had messages that I couldn't read, and when ask my Chinese friends to translate, they disgusted at what people said to me. Do what feels right though. You can always take a break and come back. Take care and stay safe!👍😊
  • xxy 2020.10.19 11:05

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    @Sophia 👍👍👍👏👏👏
  • 糊言栾语 2020.10.20 13:47

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    Well, see you. What can i say, I hope you can find a new way to pratice your chinese.
  • 环Huan 2020.10.22 23:36

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    Did you try to report him?
  • mooncake 2020.10.23 00:02

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    @环Huan She screenshot and broadcast someone’s post because they used 😂 which means beyond help. She never even had the decency to censor their avatar or name. She wrongly tried to ‘educate’ others by saying what it means where she is from and kept saying it’s universal for what she thinks it stands for, when clearly it’s not. Kept saying the OP has no EQ because they use it differently than her. Complete ignorance on her part.
  • GRACE_ 2020.11.07 03:59

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    Hey,beauty!Can we be friends
  • Phoenix 2020.11.12 07:37

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    support to you forever
  • Saskia 2021.02.07 02:40

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    So beautiful very very much

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