作者名称 国旗国籍

Ray さん

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2020.01.01 08:36

This year was one of the toughest year I ever came across. I

was heartbroken many times; probably most saddest thing was to cut a friend out of my life. I felt upset and, guilty. I blamed myself for everything. But I came to realize that some people in life are just not supposed to be with you. It took me months to get over those feelings.


I ran into more accident than ever (One time my cycle broke down completely!), I hurt myself a lot from being reckless many times, I learnt many things that shattered me at first, but, helped me grow up and get over my emotional feelings. I met a lot of amazing people that made me  apprehend that I'm not alone in this struggle. I made good relationship with my teachers and work colleagues. I was appointed to be treasury for my martial art club. I opened a small online store and registered my business as a sole trader with HMRC (Her Majesty's Revenue and Customs). I also, appointed a reliable accountant to back me with financial side of the business. I got a new job that fits in with my University schedule and still have access to my previous job.

I know.. no matter how far in life I get, I'll always be the same person I am. Money, fame, attention will never change me. I know many people completely change their personality for a very small amount of money. If you want to become a friend to someone, don't  love them for what they have but, who they are as a human being. If you lose a friend, just know that; "You never lose a friend, you find out who the real ones are"- Trent Shelton. And I learnt it the hard way. 

I want to improve my Japanese so, please be kind with me. I know; I can be annoying sometimes so, please don't take anything personally. Looking forward to a happy year !
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  • Cindy 彧 2020.01.01 08:44

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    There are always up and down in life
  • louis 2020.01.01 08:45

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    Tomorrow will be better
  • 千若風 2020.01.01 08:45

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    (ง •̀_•́)ง
  • Ray さん 2020.01.01 08:50

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    @Cindy 彧 @louis xiexie 💦😭
  • Yim 2020.01.01 08:56

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    I like the way you see a friendship,good luck!
  • Meaningoflife 2020.01.01 09:04

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    In each loss there is a gain, as in every gain there is a loss, and with each ending comes a new beginning. I’m another heartbroken person in 2019. Thank you for sharing your story and your courage.
  • Ray さん 2020.01.01 09:17

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    @Meaningoflife Thank you !😆
  • Ray さん 2020.01.01 09:19

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    @Yim thank you
  • Ray さん 2020.01.01 09:19

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    @千若風 😄
  • 嘻嘻 2020.01.01 09:28

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    good luck to you
  • Ray さん 2020.01.01 09:29

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    @嘻嘻 XieXie😄. Do you like Doraemon? I used to watch as a kid😁
  • 嘻嘻 2020.01.01 09:31

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    yes . l like it very much
  • Ray さん 2020.01.01 09:38

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    @嘻嘻 I watched the Japanese version and it was very good. I like the sense of humor. I think I'll watch it again sometimes.
  • 嘻嘻 2020.01.01 09:41

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    wow.it's sounds that good. maybe l should watch again. 😃
  • Alice 2020.01.04 09:01

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    we should follow the feeling inner~,and together with them~~then we will go out and be happy~~~
  • Summer university teacher 2020.01.06 12:38

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    Good luck and come on
  • Ray さん 2020.01.06 13:05

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    @Summer university teacher what does this expression "come on " means in this context 🤔. Chinese people use it a lot. I don't understand.
  • Summer university teacher 2020.01.06 13:06

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    @Ray さん Add oil
  • Ray さん 2020.01.07 14:27

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    @ Yes.. what you said is exactly how I thought as well. It's hard to lose someone that you put so much priority in. Maybe they didn't notice, because you're just another nice guy to them they put to a side. But, it's important to get over these emotions to move forward. It's a win for you when you lose extra weight that you carried in your shoulder.
  • alina 2020.01.08 09:25

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    good luck with your future endeavors!
  • Takeru 2020.01.12 14:53

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    I wanna be able to write my feelings like you
  • Ray さん 2020.01.12 15:02

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    @Takeru がんばってください!!
  • 舍得 2020.01.17 14:11

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    一个人,要照顾好自己
  • Spiritual 2020.01.19 02:21

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    To your valour,my sword,long may the sunshine.😚
  • Ray さん 2020.01.19 09:46

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    @Spiritual 😬😄
  • Spiritual 2020.01.19 10:10

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    @Ray さん Its from a game:Dark Souls3.😁
  • Wenxiangyang 2020.01.20 22:09

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    Feel a lot of courage from your summary of this year
  • Wenxiangyang 2020.01.20 22:09

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    Thanks
  • Ray さん 2020.01.20 22:22

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    @Wenxiangyang 😄
  • Yolo 2020.02.06 14:52

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    加油💪
  • Wenting Вика 2020.02.07 08:16

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    Oh you’re so warm. Never give up👊👊
  • 竹下敦宣 2020.02.11 14:29

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    There are always up and down. It’s good word. Lucky and unlucky is like a front and back of coin .
  • Tina 2020.02.21 03:05

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    through read your moment I realized life is difficult to most of us. but we have no reason to say I can't. whatever the things happened. we just be brave and face it.
  • Ms Active Couch Potato 2020.02.23 05:22

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    厄年かね
  • Echo 2020.03.27 02:41

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    Everything will be better. Love yourself and take care of yourself.

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