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Someone

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2020.04.30 20:27

I went to the store today to buy some things and the cashier

girl asked me a stupid question ...
she said : I can see that you have hairs on your arms why you Won’t shave it or wax it .. that’s not feminine ?! 😳
Like wtf miss 🙄
Ok it’s normal to shave your legs , under arms and blah blah ... but why the Fck my arm hair pressed you so bad ? It’s my own choice if I want to do that or not ... it’s not like I’m hairy like a gorilla , I have very short almost non visible hairs like every girl has ...
Since when your 3 cent opinion has a value ??

Let me see all these beauty gorillas when they won’t wax their arm hair for few weeks , because white hair tend to become darker and thicker after you touch them 🙄

I have nothing against people who do that , but why you’re trying to shame people who doesn’t do that ??!

Beauty standards sucks ...
and natural beauty is less seen now in the world ..

Stop being a copy by following trends , be unique as you were born !
That’s all I wanted to say 😅 bye 👋🏻
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  • 인욱 2020.04.30 20:32

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    Interesting!
  • Nathh 2020.04.30 20:33

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    I don't shave my arms because you can barely seee it and also it would be weird in my country, here the ones that shave their arms are the "weird" people. I never understood why it was a problem in other countries...is just hairrrrr🤷🏻‍♀️
  • Victor 2020.04.30 20:39

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    你不怕病毒?
  • Stella Chen 2020.04.30 20:39

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    It should be optional and nobody should shame people for that. Just need to ignore those close-minded people sometimes.
  • Victor 2020.04.30 20:40

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    u shouldn't live in people mouth
  • Someone 2020.04.30 21:15

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    @Nathh exactly ! 🤗
  • Someone 2020.04.30 21:18

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    @Stella Chen it’s not like I paid any attention of what she said ! And I wasn’t ashamed at all from her words ! Just decided to share my thoughts about that ! Because other people in a situation like this can get offended by her words ! And as you said , it is optional , if you feel comfortable doing that just do it but don’t go around mocking other for not doing it !
  • Hyunjeong 2020.04.30 21:18

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    @Nathh I really agree with your opinion. I think the way who doesn’t like have arm hairs from tv, movie, and music videos. Cuz a lot of media are making about popular women don’t have arm hairs and they sell about the waxing products and make people feel like have to do waxing or something.
  • Someone 2020.04.30 21:24

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    @Hyunjeong yes exactly! they are advertising so many products for hair ( waxing , shaving , lasers , Creams ) And they are trying to brainwash people like body hair is something so disgusting and unacceptable in our world ! Ofc there are many body parts where hair looks a little too much and that’s why women have to do that , but for sure arm hairs is not one of this spot ! Many times I was asked about my arm hair but I always ignored those close minded people 😅
  • Hyunjeong 2020.04.30 21:28

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    @Someone yes. They selling a lot of products for hair. And they can earn big money from those stuffs. Yes I think it’s kinda brain washing.
  • Happyday_야생고릴라🦍 2020.04.30 23:21

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    Ooops! It's too difficult and sophisticated subject for men. 😥
  • Yunyun 2020.05.01 04:12

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    I like what you said. People is controlled by what the TV CM saying about beauty standards. And I just think what I will do when I meet such kind of rude person.
  • James 2020.05.05 14:38

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    I agree with you. Everyone must respect their own standards. And We needs our own originality at the same time. Because we are 'human', not 'robot'.

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