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Kimmi キミー

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2020.03.13 20:25

Dear Boys,
(the flirty 10% of you - not all)


I am single,

but that doesn't mean that I want to flirt with you. I don't. I don't want a boyfriend right now. Even if I did, HelloTalk isn't where I would come to look for one.

This is not Tinder. This is not a dating app. So, don't treat it as such. If two people meet here and fall in love then brilliant. Good for them. However, it should not be something that you actively seek.

This is my request for you to avoid trying to flirt with me. I don't want it. Even if it comes from mere kindness, please do not compliment my appearance the first time we speak. I find it very uncomfortable when people address me as "beautiful" which happens sometimes. If you message me saying "hey beautiful" then I am likely to ignore you.

Do not ask me about my bedroom habits. Do not ask me about the guys I have slept with. Do not ask me if I have a boyfriend. Do not ask me about my ideal type. Do not ask me if I like Asian or Spanish guys. Do not ask me if I am currently seeing anyone. - if we are going to be friends then you don't need to know any of this information. Furthermore, I will refuse to answer because I find it to be a complete invasion of my privacy.

This is my polite request for you to respect me as a person and do you best to understand that for me, this is a very uncomfortable thing. Some of you may feel the need to be defensive, but this is just my way of letting you know that I do not like the things that I have mentioned in this moment.

Please respect my boundaries as I have now clearly defined them.

Thank you!


Regards,

Kimmi
(an honest British woman)
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Comments

  • Cristian 2020.03.13 20:28

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    Genial tu sinceridad 😊
  • Teresa 2020.03.13 20:31

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    HEAR HEAR 👏👏 Please say it louder for the people at the back! Hellotalk is not a dating app! I don’t know why people feel so entitled to ask some inappropriate questions.
  • Desert rose 2020.03.13 20:31

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    Good words
  • Hiro Хиро 2020.03.13 20:32

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    This long sentence is useful for English practice.😊
  • Gaku 2020.03.13 20:33

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    Brilliant
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.13 20:34

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    @Teresa It's cause the girls here are being dirty too. I want to roast them all 😒
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.13 20:34

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    @Hiro Хиро I'm glad that my long moments can be of help 😂
  • Gustavo 2020.03.13 20:35

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    I think these kind of messages are neccesary. Many people don't understand this app is to pratise languages.
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.13 20:36

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    @Gustavo I plan on releasing a video over the weekend which touches up on it. I've always said things like this, but I feel like I need to make a louder statement. Some people say that writing these moments is pointless. So, I will be louder 😊🔊
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.13 20:38

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    @ Some guys are apprehensive about talking to me because they think all British girls are like that 😩 Do you at least check that they're OK with it first?
  • LG Lenin 2020.03.13 20:40

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    Thats right This app is only language practice, many people dont understand that.
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.13 20:41

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    @LG Lenin I find it disappointing 😔
  • yeonnovation 2020.03.13 20:46

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    I totally agree with you. Why do they think it makes me happy to praise my appearance even though we don’t know each other? It’s really impolite🤮
  • David Salvador V 2020.03.13 20:47

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    Un excelente texto del que puedo aprender. Gracias
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.13 20:48

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    @yeonnovation I agree. Even if it's just a compliment, I find it very weird
  • LG Lenin 2020.03.13 20:57

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    @Kimmi キミー but Sometimes i need to ask something that i need to listen to learn. I say to the persons about my life and i ask you if my english is ok . For that person correct me. Are you agree with that ?
  • Yumeco 2020.03.13 21:07

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    I feel you! Great explanation 👏
  • Luna 2020.03.13 21:23

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    Excellent!! I’m agree with you. I hate that
  • katana girl Miki 2020.03.13 21:24

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    I’m agree with you! Not all but almost all 😂 now I decided not to send a message to anyone anymore
  • Eddy Jose Betanc 2020.03.13 21:53

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    Help me with my British accent! Please! 💚
  • Shingo 2020.03.13 22:43

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    I think this is very natural and very important.
  • Britaisian 2020.03.13 23:08

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    What a poor girl😂😂😂 sorry to hear that
  • Joe じょー 2020.03.13 23:17

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    I think the people who send messages to you like that stupid things don’t read this loooong message🤣🤣🤣 Because they just wanna know and don’t think your feeling. Sooo selfish guys 🤗 Hi cocky Kimmi 🙈
  • AnaCalderón 2020.03.13 23:21

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    Totally agree with you!
  • Gadiel0510 2020.03.14 00:57

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    I totally agree with you Kimmi! There are so many men who act like freaks!
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.03.14 01:29

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    @Gadiel0510 women too...
  • Choroico 2020.03.14 02:04

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    Great post!
  • Joshua 2020.03.14 07:06

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    Glad to see this post :)

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