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Kailie カイリ

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2021.06.14 20:16

18 things I've learned in 18 years:
1. YOU. ARE. LOVED.
2. But

not everyone will like you, and it's not always your fault.
3. Don't change for anyone.
4. That said, people are mirrors. Look at how they treat you and see if there is anything you should fix (e.g., an attitude adjustment).
5. Set good habits early and destroy bad habits early.
6. Love, rest, happiness, air, water, and food are necessary. Don't deprive yourself of these.
7. School isn't important. Education is. Learn!
7.5. On a side note, reading is not the only way to learn.
8. Although you shouldn't be a people pleaser, you should strive to have a good reputation among others.
9. Treat others how you want to be treated.
10. Don't expect perfection from yourself or others. People can't be perfect.
11. Even if you can't achieve perfection, always try your best.
12. Just because you fail doesn't mean you're a failure.
13. There's nothing wrong with being nice and there's never an excuse for cruelty.
13.5. That said, sometimes you must be firm with others—especially when it comes to your beliefs and/or safety.
14. You aren't a doormat; don't let others treat you like one.
15. There's always someone who has it worse than you.
16. But that doesn't invalidate your problems.
17. You are rarely, if ever, the smartest person in the room.
18. Listen more than you speak.
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  • モンキー 2021.06.14 21:20

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    I learned that it’s not about getting there first, it’s about knowing how to get there. Life’s not a race.
  • Jërry 2021.06.14 21:31

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    Thanks Kailie , that’s gorgeous of you! But you know people in this world are told those big and golden life rules for thousands of times but still, they get in trapped...just like don’t really care about others.. It’s really hard to don’t care about others opinions of you , isn’t it?
  • Kailie カイリ 2021.06.14 21:34

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    @モンキー Ooo that's a good one
  • Kailie カイリ 2021.06.14 21:39

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    @ Jërry Agreed😕 Life is hard and everyone has both the same and different experiences. I think we should listen to all opinions, but with clarity of mind. There is a story that goes like this: Someone told a man was told that there was a big, hairy mole on his nose. The man didn't think much about it, because it was only one person. But then 10 people told him he had a big, hairy mole on his nose. Now he had reason to go look in the mirror and see if it was true or not.
  • Rina 2021.06.14 22:29

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    All of them are really greattt! Btw happyy birthdayyy! 🥳💜
  • Kailie カイリ 2021.06.14 22:43

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    @Rina thank you so much!!!
  • Ash 2021.06.14 23:19

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    Very well said Kailieee. I read a comment that it's your birthday? Happy birthday Kailee!
  • AR 2021.06.14 23:20

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    You Are loved
  • Kailie カイリ 2021.06.15 02:06

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    @Ash Thank you! Yes, this is like my birthday post🥰
  • Ash 2021.06.15 02:26

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    @Kailie カイリ Happy Birthday! I'm really thankful that I got to be your friend. It may sound exaggerated but I really idolised you!
  • 𝔹𝕒𝕕 𝔹𝕠𝕪 2021.06.15 04:14

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    Happy birthday to you 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎂
  • Helena 2021.06.15 04:52

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    Happy birthday! You're one of the sweetest girls I've ever met! Your friends are so lucky to have you! 💙💙💙🥺
  • Nancy 2021.06.15 05:47

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    love that😭 Happy Birthday, girl!
  • Anurag 2021.06.15 07:28

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    Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us:) Happy birthday ✨ God bless you 😇
  • zainab 2021.06.15 09:51

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    Happy birthday I hope you have bright future 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻these flowers for you 😊
  • Doody 2021.06.15 12:10

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    Happyyy bdayyyy I'm so glad that I knew u sweetie 💜💜💫
  • Kailie カイリ 2021.06.15 16:26

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    Thank you all for the birthday wishes🥰
  • 𝔹𝕒𝕕 𝔹𝕠𝕪 2021.06.15 16:29

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    @Kailie カイリ 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
  • Jërry 2021.06.19 09:12

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    @Kailie カイリ now I just reread them, turns out, words of wisdom. I got Lotta same experiences with you. Sincerely appreciate that.
  • Kailie カイリ 2021.06.20 13:48

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    @ Jërry Anytime man😊💙💙💙
  • jasmine 2021.07.03 13:05

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    Words of wisdom,soo good!

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