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2021.07.18 19:21

In your culture, if you say: “let’s meet up for lunch sometime

!” or “we should grab coffee!” as you’re parting ways, do you really mean it? Or is it simply like saying, “Bye! See you later!”

In America, at least from what I’ve gathered over the years, if you really mean it, you make sure to set a specific day or date, otherwise it’s just a polite way of saying, “thanks, bye!”
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  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 19:21

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    진수 씨가 밥 한번 먹자고 했는데 언제 연락을 할까요? 陈秀说要一起吃饭,什么时候联系呢? 그거 인사로 한 빈말일 텐데 설마 진짜 연락을 기다리는 건 아니지요? 那是打招呼说的空话,你难道不是真的在等联系吧? 밥 먹자는 말이 어떻게 인사예요? 用吃饭的话怎么打招呼? 한국 사람들은 헤어질 때 딱히 할 말이 없으면 그렇게 말해요. 韩国人在分开的时候,如果真的无话可说,就会那样说。 지난번에 학교 앞에서 만났을 때 헤어지면서 한 약속인데.... 这是上次在学校门口见面分开时说的约定...... 한국어는 말을 할 때의 상황이나 맥락을 통해서 그 뜻을 이해해야 해요. 그런 것 때문에 오해가 생기기도 하죠. 韩语应该通过说话时的情况或脉络来理解意思。正因为如此,才会产生误会
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 19:25

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  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 19:25

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  • 解楸Xiè Qiū 2021.07.18 19:30

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    你发音好好~
  • Amber 2021.07.18 19:34

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    Great!
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 19:40

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    @解楸Xiè Qiū I love your name! 獬廌的解还是浑身解数的解?😍
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 19:40

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    @Amber 💘💘
  • 解楸Xiè Qiū 2021.07.18 19:44

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    @雅玲 민지 雅志 第二个 解用来作为姓那么就会读作xie
  • 解楸Xiè Qiū 2021.07.18 19:45

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    如果是平时就读解jiě
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 19:48

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    @解楸Xiè Qiū 嗯嗯!知道了!
  • Son JH 2021.07.18 19:56

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    😅 That is really bad. He just looked down on others when he said ‘빈말’. Though now there are many cafes, in Korean culture to have food together still is good for socializing. as a wish, people say ‘let’s have lunch when we are free.’ when it’s too busy or hard to decide specific time at the moment. But when someone said ‘빈말’ straightly, I think they have problem. Nobody welcome them. They just exploited Korean culture badly. 😅
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.18 20:19

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    @Son JH good to know!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and some very important information ℹ️
  • Jenny_P 2021.07.19 00:26

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    哈哈 中文也是 改天一起吃个饭 那只要不说具体时间 就是一客套话 就是88
  • 초꧌견᭄Jₐₙₑ初ᮡ见ོはつみ 2021.07.19 01:00

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    위에 한국분이 말씀하는 상황은 중국인들이 떠나기 전에 말하는 말과 비슷한다고 생각해요. ㅎㅎ 뭐~제 생각은 한국어의 반발과 중국어의 客套话가 비슷한 듯해요... 물론 의미 상황으로.... ㅎㅎ 좋은 한 주 보내세욤🌹
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.19 15:09

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    @초꧌견᭄Jₐₙₑ初ᮡ见ོはつみ 💕💕💕
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.19 15:10

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    @Jenny_P got ittttttt! 💕
  • Ofglen 2021.07.19 21:03

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    @雅玲 민지 雅志 🤔 我表示看不太懂上面👆🏻的那些对话的意思 是为了客气才说一起吃饭的吗?还是别的🤔? 分手最好不要在break up with sb 之外的情况用,虽然to part with sb 的情况也对,但是第一印象绝对是前者
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.19 21:26

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    @Ofglen
  • Ofglen 2021.07.19 21:45

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    @雅玲 민지 雅志 🙋要是我的话肯定也会想为什么不请我吃! 😭💔
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.19 21:48

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    @Ofglen There there. It’s okay to be you. I’m the opposite. If someone asks to meet me again I’m like, oh my gosh what’s wrong?!? Why?!? 😂
  • Ofglen 2021.07.19 21:57

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    @雅玲 민지 雅志 antisocial heart detected 🤖🤖🤖
  • 雅玲 민지 雅志 2021.07.19 22:00

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    @Ofglen 😂 你很有洞察力🙆

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