Part 2: Why don't I respond to private messages? 为什么我不回复私聊？

Since I joined HT, I've corrected almost 3000 Chinese people's post, and posted more than 2200 things related to English, so I like helping Chinese people, but I don't like private messages because it's related to my feelings about uninvited guests. 自从我下载了这个软件 ，我纠正了大约3000个中国人的动态，而且我已经发了2200多种与英语相关的学习材料，所以显而易见，我很乐于帮助中国人学习英语，但是之所以我不喜欢私聊，是跟我对那些不速之客的感觉有关。

When I was a boy, I remember my cousin always coming to my house without calling. So once, I refused to open the door. I said you can't come here when you feel like it and think I'll stop what I'm doing. Call first. So he got angry, and stopped talking to me for three months! It was great! But this it basically how I feel about private messages. You see, I'm a loner. I only like doing things when I want to do them.
当我还是个孩子的时候，我表弟总是没有事先打电话通知就来我家，我拒绝给他开门。我说"你想什么时候来就什么时候来，可是我却得随时停下我的事情去招待你，这根本就是无理取闹。你应该先打电话通知我。”他生气了，我们有三个月没有说话。这感觉太好了！这就是我对私信的感觉，因为我是一个孤独的人。我只是喜欢在我想要做什么的时候就去做什么。