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雅玲 민지 vip

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2020.11.28 11:55

Some people might think my life is boring. I really don’t go

out. I don’t drink. I don’t like places with lots of people very much. I don’t even really have friends that I hang out with. I have my family and my work. 🙇🏻‍♀️

But I am continually amazed at how much I enjoy my life. 🙆🏻‍♀️Even in this crazy day and age.

To be honest, I used to be a self harmer, and I struggled every day for years and years with debilitating depression and pain. I spent most of my time trying to figure out how to harm myself. 🙍🏻‍♀️🙎🏻‍♀️

Then I started looking for light in the darkness. Becoming comfortable with the darkness as my friend rather than my enemy. 👯‍♀️

And I started learning Chinese without expecting it to help, but it just happened to change my life. 🥰

And last night I giggled my way to sleep because every single student I spoke with yesterday made me laugh, taught me something, shared with me about their life...and I was bursting with gratitude. 😅🥰

It’s the simple things;

It’s the moments;

It’s the people whom I speak with who are across the world from me, learning and struggling every day;

It is this life that I cherish.

It was given to me, and I am learning every moment how to give thanks and govern it wisely. I am scared, imperfect, and a fumbling mess most of the time. But I am loved. I am cherished. And Because of that I can also love and cherish others.

So I just wanted to share that today. No real reason. I hope someone out there is inspired to keep making the darkness their friend and settle into who they are no matter who that is.

You are all you need to be.
You are here.
You are.

What a beautiful treasure you are. ❤
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  • Lily 2020.11.28 12:07

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    Thank you for sharing me. I agree with your thinking. Thank you very much once more. Have a good weekend!!😍
  • Stephen 2020.11.28 12:07

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    🥲🥲it’s really touching. I thought you were always this glamorous.
  • Ivan 2020.11.28 12:09

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    👏
  • Hola 2020.11.28 12:09

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    Surely you are loved and cherished. 💕
  • Hekang 2020.11.28 12:10

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    你的中文和汉语口语都很棒,我第一次在一个微信群里听你发的语音以为你是中国人,后来发现你是汉语太好了。很高兴在这里又遇见你,祝你快乐🙂
  • Minho 2020.11.28 12:17

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    I think your learning languages skills are amazing! A kind of motivation to me. Thanks for sharing your thought and experiences. 😊
  • ItsChloeX 2020.11.28 12:18

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    Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!! I’ve been struggling with depression for a such long time, and I don’t even know if I can make it better... You are a powerful person and I wish I could be as powerful as you are ☺️☺️☺️
  • 小熊熊_ 2020.11.28 12:30

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    雅玲姐永远是我的语言练习偶像💖🌟🌟
  • Katherine Meow 2020.11.28 12:50

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    I don't like places with crowds, either. I love to spend my spare time on something meaningful and peaceful. Like reading or learn something useful. Actually, doing language practice does make me happy and relaxed. And forget everything unpleasant. So I am sure it works very well for you, too. I gotcha! lol Making mistakes means you're perfect being human. TBT, you are gradually getting better and better. 👍 You're amazing! 💕💕💕
  • 麦克斯韦 2020.11.28 12:52

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    You're an inspiration to all of us. Also, boring is not a property of things or people, it's a state of mind😌
  • Guiyi 2020.11.28 13:00

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    这么美好聪明温柔强大刻苦善良的小姐姐哪里找!!!
  • Steven 2020.11.28 13:25

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    哇!我一直认为你是开朗乐观的人,没想到也有过至暗时刻,能自己走出来很好啊!这也很符合双子座的性格。加油!你是最棒的👍
  • Iᝰy無憂めいめい 2020.11.28 13:41

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    Life is only once, so just live the life style we like
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:44

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    @Lily ❤❤
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:45

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    @Stephen thanks for sharing with me. ☺
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:45

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    @Ivan
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:45

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    @Hola 💝💝
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:46

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    @Hekang 也祝你快快乐乐,健健康康的☺☺
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:46

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    @Minho ✨✨thank you for sharing too.
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:48

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    @ItsChloeX I think a big turning point for me was not trying to make it any better, but looking at it differently. I shifted my perspective, and that’s what shifted my world. I hope you find fresh perspective and hope in all the messiness. 💕💕💕
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:48

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    @小熊熊_ 💘💘💘💘
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:49

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    @Katherine Meow I totally relate and agree with you! Being human is tough but worth it. 👯💝
  • 冯小明 2020.11.28 13:50

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    《為女禱文》主阿!求妳塑造我的女兒,使她在軟弱時,能夠堅強不屈;在懼怕時能夠勇敢自持,在誠實的失敗中,毫不氣餒;在光明的勝利中,仍能保持謙遜溫和。主阿!懇求塑造我的女兒,不至空有幻想而闕乏行動;引領她認識妳,同時讓她知道,認識自己,才是壹切知識的基石。主阿!我祈求妳,不要使她走上安逸、舒適之途,求妳將她置於睏難、艱難和挑戰的磨練中,求妳引領她,使她學習在風暴中挺身站立,並學會憐恤那些在重壓之下失敗跌倒的人。主阿!求妳塑造我的女兒,求妳讓她有壹顆純潔的心,並有遠大的目標;使她在能指揮別人之前,先懂得駕馭自己;當邁入未來之際,永不忘記過去的教訓。主阿!在她有了這些美德之後,我還要祈求妳賜給她足夠的幽默感,以免她過於嚴肅,還苛求自己。懇求妳賜給她謙卑的心,使她永遠記得,真正的偉大是單純,真正的智慧是坦率,真正的力量是溫和。如此,我這作母親的,才敢低聲說:“我沒有虛度此生。”“阿門!”
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:51

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    @麦克斯韦 🙆 very good point. I’ve never thought of it like that! Thanks for the reminder and encouragement!
  • 林雄浩 2020.11.28 13:52

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    Thank you for sharing the struggles you had and life!!! I don’t drink and don’t like places with lots of people either. I do walk or bike in trails sometimes. I hope I can be a friend whom you can hang out with^_^
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:52

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    @Guiyi there’s always room to grow. I have a lot of weaknesses 😂 but I’m learning to just accept all of it as one big package. ❤
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:53

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    @Steven grateful to have met you Stephen. You’re like a candle 🕯 to me. 😌✨
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:53

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    @Iᝰy無憂めいめい 💘💘
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:57

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    @冯小明 😭很感动,我都收藏了,我想要仔细看看,好好学习一下。谢谢分享这样为女性们的祈祷!
  • 星广 2020.11.28 13:57

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    只有自己经历过痛苦的人,才能知道如何对别人善良。怪不得在我心里你如此善解人意又温暖~ 想到曾经的你,好像抱抱你啊,Love you💕💕
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 13:57

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    @林雄浩 we are similar in that way!
  • 何致伟 2020.11.28 13:59

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    你好啊老师!周末愉快!
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 14:00

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    @星广 😢 感动了kind words. I hope you know how powerful and gifted you are.
  • 冯小明 2020.11.28 14:02

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    @雅玲 민지 🌹🌹🌹~
  • 林雄浩 2020.11.28 14:02

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    @雅玲 민지 Yes! We are similar in that way😁
  • 星广 2020.11.28 14:14

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    @雅玲 민지 我也有痛苦的时刻,我能理解那种感觉。I hope you know how good you are and how important you are. I am always on your side 💕💕
  • A long story. 2020.11.28 14:24

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    温柔而强大的力量,一起加油,谢谢雅玲姐。
  • Sìmöñ 이 제 유 2020.11.28 14:28

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    We love u 雅玲老师!🌟🌟 Actually u are my beacon and forever......🌸☀☀
  • Steph 2020.11.28 14:43

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    Here's the beauty one ray of light and the darkness is gone This was encouraging to my soul.
  • Mr. Hwang 2020.11.28 14:54

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    I am touched with your story!!😄
  • 归零 2020.11.28 14:58

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    归零祝福雅玲:快乐 健康 平安 心想事成。
  • Luna 2020.11.28 15:05

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    You are amazing!
  • 归零 2020.11.28 15:06

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    @雅玲 민지 在您这里我真的学到了该学会的东西。感谢您!
  • water 2020.11.28 15:11

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    谢谢你雅玲老师,看到你的分享就像一道光突然照进了我的生活,你是好样的👍,爱你么么哒!😊
  • Hekang 2020.11.28 16:01

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    @冯小明 阿门!
  • salt and pepper 2020.11.28 16:08

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    看到你的经历很感动,真诚、朴实,加油!
  • jichen 2020.11.28 16:13

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    You are so amazing
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:40

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    @A long story. 一起加油。🤗🙏🏼
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:44

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    @ Steph grateful to share it with you 🙋
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:44

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    @Sìmöñ 이 제 유 ☺🌻🌻🌻☺
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:45

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    @Mr. Hwang you inspire me a lot Mr. Hwang!! ✨✨✨
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:46

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    @归零 you’re so kind, diligent and generous. I appreciate you!! Thank you for offering your help and thoughts and opinions! 🙏🙏
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:47

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    @Luna ❤❤ you are more amazing 🥲
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:50

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    @water 💕 keep going, beautiful. Don’t forget that it’s ok to be sick. It’s ok to be lost. It’s ok to be you. 💕
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:51

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    @salt and pepper ☺谢谢您的支持!
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.28 19:53

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    @jichen I’m so ordinary! I hope we all find there is greatness in being ordinary. ☺☺
  • Won 2020.11.28 20:44

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    I Just hit 100 likes!! Thanks for sharing in deed!!!!
  • Jack 2020.11.29 02:13

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    👏👏
  • 爱斯基摩T 2020.11.29 03:13

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    一直觉得雅玲姐是特别温柔温暖和正能量的人,没想到你竟然经历过如此的低潮。不过可能正是因为这样的经历,才更加懂得如何共情和鼓励别人吧💕 表白爱豆,抱住~笔芯❤️
  • Ling 2020.11.29 06:37

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    @雅玲 민지 實在太佩服妳的語言學習能力,羅馬不是一天造成的, 妳肯定付出相當的努力和毅力,謝謝妳的分享,向妳學習!謝謝!
  • 정재관 2020.11.29 08:39

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    Hey!! You know Stevie Wonder singing "You are the sunshine 🌞 of my life~!🎹🎵🎶".Haha Probably i think you inspire a lot of people. It's really worth it!👍 You deserve to be loved by many people! Take care of yourself!😊🌄
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.29 13:39

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    @爱斯基摩T ❤you’ve brightened up my life so many times. 一起加油💕
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.29 13:41

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    @Ling it’s the people around me and people around the world that have kept me going. Like you I learn from others and strive to keep fighting like they do. 一起加油!
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.29 13:41

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    @정재관 💕your kind words brighten the darkest days! 💕 you are a light!
  • 徐放 2020.11.30 03:00

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    I am a little different,48 years old but have the hope to change the destiny.I was caught in stutter for many years.many hard things accounted that make me clame with life.it doesn't matter except death.The matter of live is around happiness mindfullness. take core of yourself at first,then you will influence your friends.eat well sleep well
  • Jerry吴家大少爷 2020.11.30 12:33

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    I will cherish you.
  • 雅玲 민지 2020.11.30 13:03

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    @徐放 very true! I’m glad to share part of the journey with you. ✨✨✨

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