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@Khalil very good question Khalil. I don’t know what you mean by “play”. But in a typical sense we often get influenced and taught to control situations like our moods and actions etc. So, we are under the impression we can control everything and this control is often what causes us to self induce what we believe we “should and shouldn’t” go through in life. When was the last time we let go of preference?
Preference of what is good or bad for us. Resisting life because of ideas of how it should or shouldn’t be. We push many opportunities away by living this way. In order to be changed, one must surrender their current preference.
Going through life thinking we know what is good and what works for us is a shield for what is destined. Do you bring on all your worst experiences? No, they simply happen. And we are always stronger afterwards if we allow ourselves.