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2019.09.09 04:07

Making friends as an adult is difficult for me~~

Online or

in real life.

I didn’t have many friends growing up because I moved around a lot, and also because I don’t like most people (a lot of people are tolerable, but I don’t find them amusing...ya know?) I don’t wanna spend time with them outside of work or school.


I had only two friends growing up(from middle school to now) but one of them got married and I don’t even know who she is...and the other person doesn’t contact me much either.


Now, I moved back to my childhood hometown, as an adult, and have zero friends. I only know my coworkers, and they are all so great to work with, but I don’t hang out with them after work~ they all have partners or children.


I don’t drink, so it’s not like I randomly go to bars and find people either. There is nowhere to meet a friend. I live in a super small city, so you can’t do activities to meet new people, because there are none. I’m not being pessimistic, this is just reality.


Having no friends is boring, just cuz I have no one to laugh with or someone to complain about my day with~


Sometimes I feel alone~ but I know next year is gonna be better, because I’ll have enough money to leave this place and move into a bigger city with more opportunities.


I guess that’s one of the reasons I’m on this app often. Sometimes you need someone to talk to ~ someone to interact with.


I wonder if anyone else is like me.


If you read until the end, thanks:)
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  • Camila 2019.09.09 04:17

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    I hope you find friends! I think you're right, when you're adults making friends is difficult because groups of friends are formed
  • Dré 2019.09.09 04:19

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    Wow.. Don't worry! I don't know you but I'm pretty sure things will get better sooner than later. :')
  • ALDAIR 2019.09.09 04:24

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    Lo que te pasa a tí, me pasa a mi tambien. Ya somos tres creo aquí, a decir verdad todo tiene su tiempo y estas cosas pasan y es bueno. Ya mañana, pasado mañana o como dices al año las cosas habran cambiado así que genial aprovecha tu tiempo si aun eres soltero.
  • HJ 2019.09.09 04:48

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    All of us will be lonely for the rest of ourlives no matter who you are with. No one can fully satisfy us but at the same time we need someone to talk to or be with. I think thats why we learn how to interact with people.
  • ...... 2019.09.09 05:07

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    I think i lt was normal when we were getting older and became adult. Everyone has their own living, some were got married, some were got studying and etc. Just continue living. For me, being alone is normal. All of us will experience that situation. It just the matter of time. Well.. as long as we dont ever lose hope. Because world is so wide for us to stop explore.
  • Naomi 2019.09.09 05:36

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    It's true what you say. The same thing happens to me ... I lived in Argentina for a while and it was difficult to have friends even though I have good social skills. I spent a lot of time alone and got depressed. I decided to return to my country. But in some way or another it is important to have a self-assessment to know what we are doing wrong. Life is a constant learning.
  • Michael 2019.09.09 14:38

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    Hope you find some good friends quality ❤
  • Dh 2019.09.09 19:32

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    My situation is exactly the same as yours, and I also want to move out of my city someday. I hope everything gets better in your life
  • Frank 2019.10.23 18:31

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    I understand you. I'm new in this country and I would like to make friends from here and to meet new people. We can talk a little bit too see if we have things in common and you know, and It can be a great way for me to practice my English too.
  • 명성우 2019.10.28 03:04

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    i dont wanna say 'i hope u find good friends' but i can say ' i wanna be your friend' hello 미소
  • Debbie 2019.10.28 03:18

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    @명성우 ohhh, thank you so much 😊 hello 성우~~
  • 존버는 반드시 승리한다 2019.10.29 16:11

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    As i read ur sentences, It remind me of “Forever” by Stratovarious. If u r ok, can we have talk?
  • IL Jav the BBoy 2019.10.30 02:05

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    I wanna be your friend. 🙄
  • Moon 2019.10.30 17:59

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    I agree with your article. I had many friends when I was young. However, they live their lives and somehow become distant, awkward, and forgotten. But if you live a little more day, you will have a good relationship. Relationship is the life homework we should carry as human beings.
  • Gonzalo 2019.10.31 09:34

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    I've been through similar issues because I have had to move several times in my life.
  • Debbie 2019.11.08 09:45

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    @ you don’t understand lol
  • _DoGyun Kim 2019.11.09 01:16

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    You will have a good friend Sometimes give me a mesage When you're bored😁
  • Debbie 2019.11.09 01:58

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    @_DoGyun Kim thank you 😊
  • Silhouette 2019.11.12 13:36

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    La verdad es que te ha quedado un post muy cortito xD
  • DH 2019.12.06 21:42

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    Haha sounds very similar to me with different reasons...., INFJ here
  • Kou 2019.12.09 13:52

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