作者名称 国旗国籍

Nana

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2021.03.18 08:56

when I write my last post, a lot of people ask me why I can't

see (feeling safe ) is a mix between feeling comfortable and deep love..or maybe it could be the love itself??

for me, I didn't see it that way ...so let me explain please the difference (in my opinion)

the baby can feel comfortable in his bed and can love his dad and mom and his cute pet ..but only when he hugs his mom he feel so safe and secure
the girl could love her family and feel so comfortable with her best friends ...but only his dad always be the only one she feels safe and secure with him and feel like no one can beat her when she walks with him
feel safe mean you know your partner would never give up on you and let you down as baby know his mom's hug will never let him down

safe is the last level in a relationship ..it comes after the highest level of like and deep love and the highest level of comfort and the highest level of trust and the highest level of understanding and acceptance for all your partner sides even the darkest side of it ...it's not mixed between these things ...it's just another level after them all..it the point when your relationship turend from someone i love and I want to spend my life with ...to someone is being home for you and you can't live your life without

That is why a relationship differs from a girl to a man ...The girl loves the person when she feels safe with him, and the man loves the girl when he feels that he want to protect her and be her security source, so when the girl makes him feel safe too, or when he gives up his (appreciation or pride or ego) and let his heart feel safe with her, that means this relationship would be unforgettable in the whole life. (And the opposite is true in some cases)

you could leave someone you love and move on even it's hard but it's impossible to leave home and move on because it's the only one who your soul feel peaceful with

safe .... when "home" went from being a place to being a person
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  • nothing 2021.03.18 09:04

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    You are a strong sensitive and big feeling girl ❤️💓
  • Esmerelda 2021.03.18 09:05

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    True. Reciprocation is very important. Both partners that feel safe with each other and are willing to be each other's strength and protect each other, flourish. Their relation blooms like an ever lasting spring.
  • Nana 2021.03.18 10:33

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    @Yoshi hello marhaba
  • Nana 2021.03.18 10:34

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    @Fadel thanks☺
  • Nana 2021.03.18 10:34

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    @Esmerelda yeeeeeh😍🌹🌹your words better than mine🌹
  • Esmerelda 2021.03.18 10:38

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    @Nana don't compare nana✨ your words motivated mine
  • concise 2021.03.18 10:45

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    Wow.
  • Nana 2021.03.18 10:46

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    @Esmerelda love u to the moon and back😍
  • Esmerelda 2021.03.18 10:51

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    @Nana 🙈tunes in nana's take me to the moon
  • Nana 2021.03.18 10:56

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    @concise 🌹
  • Nana 2021.03.18 10:56

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    @Esmerelda 🌹🙈
  • 四米蓝火 2021.03.18 12:16

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    爱是多种多样的。
  • Nana 2021.03.18 12:38

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    @四米蓝火 yeh
  • 图腾 2021.03.18 14:09

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    你挺有才华
  • Nana 2021.03.18 14:10

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    @图腾 oh thanks so much🙈🌹
  • 图腾 2021.03.18 15:07

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    @Nana 来吧,交个朋友
  • Nana 2021.03.18 15:08

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    @图腾 I am sorry I don't get it .. hellotalk translator didn't help this time
  • 图腾 2021.03.18 15:11

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    @Nana Let's make friends.
  • Nana 2021.03.18 15:11

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    @图腾 🌹
  • 图腾 2021.03.18 15:14

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    @Nana Let's make friends.Send me a message in private, beauty.😄
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 15:46

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    I just love how romantic you are ❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
  • Nana 2021.03.18 15:49

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    @Tanuja ooooh tanu😍🙈😍🙈😍what agreat Surprise I am so happy to see u I miss u like hell😭😭
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 16:00

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    @Nana I miss you and your great written...it gives my face a million dollar smile😘😘😘😘😘😘😍❤️🥰
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 16:00

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    @Nana I wish I can see you ballad soon😭😭😭😭
  • Nana 2021.03.18 16:02

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    @Tanuja oooooh your comment and your words is more than millions dollar for me
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 16:07

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    @Nana awww thank you my sweet granny you need failed to make me smile
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 16:07

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    Love you Soo sooooo much
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 16:12

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    Ballet*😅😅
  • Nana 2021.03.18 16:13

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    @Tanuja 🙈😍😍😍😍
  • Tanuja 2021.03.18 16:13

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    😅😅😅😅😅❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
  • 阳阳 2021.03.18 23:06

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    you are great😊
  • Nana 2021.03.19 05:32

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    @阳阳 thanks so much😍
  • 阳阳 2021.03.19 09:40

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    @Nana you are welcome
  • ....... 2021.03.19 12:29

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    your words is direct and i have no idea how can you use words to make our feelings look that clear please nana , make a blog or ebook or anything not just posts
  • Nana 2021.03.19 14:15

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    @....... Oh god thanks so much🌹
  • Aviree 2021.03.21 17:33

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    Straight facts you know ✌🏻
  • Nana 2021.03.22 05:54

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    @Aviree thanks so much🌹🌹🌹🌹

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