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2020.08.25 13:42
For the longest time, I wanted one thing so desperately: a boyfriend.

For years, I wanted one more than almost anything else. It was my New Year’s resolution. My longest relationship only lasted six months. And for a few years there, I thought there was something wrong with me.

Why didn’t guys want to be with me? Why did so many go on first dates with me and then never talk to me again?

On so many of these dates, I projected confidence, while inside I was suffering. I hated myself for a long time. I felt like a failure in so many aspects of life. And I thought getting a boyfriend would fix all of that. I thought if I could just get someone to love me, I’d find true happiness again.

Of course life doesn’t really work like that. It’s true what they say: you need to learn to love yourself, before you can ever be successful in a relationship. You can’t count on someone else to lift you up. You have to count on you.

Love yourself first, because that’s who you will be spending the rest of your life with.
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  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.25 13:43

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    Of course, life doesn’t really work like that. It’s true what they say: you need to learn to love yourself, before you can ever be successful in a relationship. You can’t count on someone else to lift you up. You have to count on you. Love yourself first, because that’s who you will be spending the rest of your life with.
  • 船长 2020.08.25 13:43

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    这个声音我真的爱了
  • 刘雪儿 Alice 2020.08.25 13:48

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    good voice
  • Edward 2020.08.25 13:52

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    Good choice.😂😂😂
  • 沐沐 2020.08.25 13:54

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    Thanks.I got it.very good advice.
  • Febe1.00001 2020.08.25 14:15

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    Well said😊love what you shared☺
  • Naiteek 2020.08.25 14:30

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    Good to know 👍🏾
  • linda 2020.08.25 15:03

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    @IlIlIIllIllIlIl pretty good voice. I do like it. thanks so much for your voice. i will to learn about .
  • Jenny_P 2020.08.25 15:25

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    @せん Quinn 你也来了👍
  • せん Quinn 2020.08.25 15:43

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    @Jenny_P Yeah follow the trend😆😂
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.25 16:03

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    @せん Quinn @Jenny_P did I miss a joke? 😢
  • Ashley 2020.08.26 02:13

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  • Ashley 2020.08.26 02:15

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  • May星空 2020.08.26 08:06

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    🍀
  • May星空 2020.08.26 08:08

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    🍀
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 01:37

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    @せん Quinn aspects
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:06

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    @Ashley someone else to lift you up
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:09

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    @Jenny_P 👍
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:13

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    @May星空 aspects
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:15

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    @Tessa hated
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:16

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    @Cathy Wow your L and Ns are getting better 👍
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:18

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    @Jack 不贰 many
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:21

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    @橙哥 desperately, lift
  • IlIlIIllIllIlIl 2020.08.29 02:22

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    @Febe1.00001 👌
  • Zzzz 2020.08.29 03:08

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    @IlIlIIllIllIlIl
  • Cathy 2020.08.29 03:47

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    @IlIlIIllIllIlIl Thank you, I owe it to you that I can make progress.😄
  • Jack 不贰 2020.08.30 08:56

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    @IlIlIIllIllIlIl
  • Hảo Hảo 2020.10.27 14:20

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    @IlIlIIllIllIlIl thank you. You are so thoughtful. This way is easy to look and listen at the same time.

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