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Someone

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2020.01.27 15:37

You Met a very good guy / girl but it’s very hard to keep a conversation

due to language barrier !
Do you think language matters in a relationship ?
It’s possible to get closer and to open even tho it’s so hard to communicate and to understand each other ?
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  • 이상언 2020.01.27 15:38

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    I don't think so haha
  • Elyes 2020.01.27 15:40

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    @이상언 so am I
  • Steven蘭陵王史帝文 2020.01.27 15:40

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    Language barrier also could be something make you closer because both of you can say anything.
  • kt 2020.01.27 15:40

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    sign language
  • Marin 2020.01.27 15:40

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    I'm Japanese and dating with Korean! Language may not be barrier, but sometimes distance can be barrier...
  • tapit 2020.01.27 15:40

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    It does matters. One side must get good language ability at least.
  • Tanny Lin 2020.01.27 15:41

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    In fact it’s not only about language, it’s also about culture difference. And if it’s “just meet”, then maybe there’s no enough encouragement to try to understand each other
  • 人间不值得 2020.01.27 15:42

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    love has no borders, if you love each other. You will overcome these difficulties
  • Wonny 2020.01.27 15:43

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    It would be SOOO hard to get closer. But, Whatever! If they really like them each other, it doesn't matter at all.
  • Corea-Korea 2020.01.27 15:44

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    사랑에는 경계가 없어요 :)
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:45

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    I do agree it’s hard ... but why not trying ! Someone can make an effort and start to learn the language fitted for their daily talk !
  • Layla 2020.01.27 15:45

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    Yes sometime i feel that because i want to tell something exactly fit in the situation but i can't 😂😂
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:45

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    @人间不值得 aww .. that’s cute ^^
  • Jeon 2020.01.27 15:45

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    I think it's a good idea to understand each other and give each other slowly
  • Kovasti 2020.01.27 15:45

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    I don't think because we can ues translation software to build our friendship😄
  • Jayden_ㅈ ㅐ 훈 2020.01.27 15:46

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    Personally don't think language matters in yhe relationships. It is more about how couples try hard to understand each other. If they do, it definitely works.
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:46

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    @Wonny thank you for the answer 😊 I do agree it’ll be hard ! But I guess if 2 people like each other genuinely they can get over this barrier !
  • 人间不值得 2020.01.27 15:46

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    @Someone thank you
  • 이상언 2020.01.27 15:47

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    @Someone someone who didn't try it has wrong attitude.
  • A_ L. 先森 2020.01.27 15:47

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    No, languages can learn from each other. It's important to love each other sincerely!
  • Wonny 2020.01.27 15:48

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    @Someone Yeah exactly ! I don't know what's going on with you but Cheers :) All things will be fine 🔅
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:48

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    @이상언 who do you know I didn’t tried or I’m Not trying now ? Don’t be so fast on judging 😂
  • lllllIIIlll 2020.01.27 15:49

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    In my opinion, language contributes tremendous impact on their relationship including friendships, romantic, business. As you know, if people in groups can't participate a conversation deeply and can't understand the exact meaning of what others are talking about, it must be frustrated. Though some lovers said it can be overcomes if they put effort and help learning partner's language. But basically it's very difficult so that's why international couple deserves the respect.
  • Madeline 2020.01.27 15:50

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    For me it’s really hard😂my ex is a white guy and I think we never really understand each other
  • 이상언 2020.01.27 15:50

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    @Someone i'm sorry. Haha my judge was so fast. I agree with you
  • Call me Tu 2020.01.27 15:54

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    I think so
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:57

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    @Layla exactly 😁sometimes it’s too hard to express yourself , be that a friendship or more than that !
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:58

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    @Jayden_ㅈ ㅐ 훈 you have a point !
  • Layla 2020.01.27 15:59

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    @Someone Yes translator focused on sentence not my intention🥺🥺
  • 沈三思 2020.01.27 15:59

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    Maybe cultural differences hinder your conversation. You have different dialogue habits different knowledge . I think if you have a same purpose can make it easier.
  • Someone 2020.01.27 15:59

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    @lllllIIIlll i was impressed by your comment 🙃
  • Someone 2020.01.27 16:01

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    @Madeline ah I’m sorry ... but yeah ... sometimes it’s hard to find a base when both are so different !
  • Someone 2020.01.27 16:01

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    @ haha right 😂
  • linhgiang 2020.01.27 16:10

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    I think so, language barrier is deterrence. What should we do if we cant understand we say each other?
  • Madeline 2020.01.27 16:13

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    @Someone Yea definitely. Especially he is from Europe,English isn’t his mother tongue too.so it’s hard for us to express what we really want to say
  • memory 2020.01.27 16:18

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    Of course!It matters!
  • HanThuy 2020.01.27 16:20

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    I don't think so. If you really like someone you can do more than you can think.
  • Garnet Sj 안수정 2020.01.27 16:24

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    Language is a magic and if you know a lot of languages you can do everything and make other relationships
  • Eric Yong Ho Kwon 2020.01.27 16:48

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    No. Only works in kdrama 😁
  • Thu Tống 2020.01.27 16:53

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    It doesn't matter really
  • Someone 2020.01.27 17:21

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    @Eric Yong Ho Kwon haha 😂
  • Ari 2020.01.27 22:11

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    I think it well be so funny, but the another person have to be open mind and funny as well not boring, I think the language it's not matters that much
  • Leone 2020.01.28 04:50

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    I think language play a great role in a relationship. The language barrier will make them not to communicate with each other deeply. So, is your boyfriend a foreign person?
  • Fat cat 2020.01.30 07:57

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    If you understand Chinese, I will tell you "如果你懂中文,我会告诉你“没有永远的付出”
  • unofficial 2020.02.02 11:11

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    How do you know if person you met is good ????
  • YOUNG 2020.02.18 05:12

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    Honestly i think that basic level of language is needed. even though there is no problem to have feeling about someone to be but still need interaction way to develop relationship. Language is easy way for that 😎
  • suh.haedong 2020.03.16 05:37

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    If they really want to understand each other, they will try to use easier words. And even if the words and grammar are not correct, they can understand each other day by day. In my opinion, it is important not be rude in any case.

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