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2020.05.11 14:51

I'm feeling extremely stressed and conflicted these days. I have

to make a decision. I know what's right for me, but it will upset my family. I don't want to upset my family. I want to prioritise my own needs, but I feel so guilty... 😩 Ahhh
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  • marnie マーニー 2020.05.11 14:54

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    You always gotta do whats best for you❤️ Guilt is normal but you cant live your life pleasing other people, thats not fair on you at all. Your happiness is most important as it is your life x x
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.05.11 14:56

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    @marnie マーニー it's so hard 😭 x
  • Chloe 2020.05.11 14:56

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    I agree with marnie. Your happiness is the most important thing in ur life and no body can live your life instead of ya. It can upset ur family but they are your family. They will understand you and respect ur decisions. If you know what’s best for you? That’s the answer! Dont worry girl. Dont get stressed. Do whatever for yourself !!!!
  • Allen 알렌 アレン 2020.05.11 14:57

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    Always put yourself first no matter what your family say sis. And please don't let anybody make you feel obligated to be nice becuase it ain't fun at all. Just telling you this from experience. 🤕🤕
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.05.11 14:58

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    @Chloe @marnie マーニー Thank you. Your words are encouraging ♥
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.05.11 14:58

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    @Allen 알렌 アレン I know, but I feel so bad because they're so old
  • Allen 알렌 アレン 2020.05.11 15:00

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    @Kimmi キミー I'm pretty sure they'll understand your decisions. Just be that brave dog.
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.05.11 15:02

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    @Allen 알렌 アレン I tried before, but my grandmother cried so I felt bad and decided to stay, but as time goes on, it becomes more and more obvious that the best thing for me right now would be to make the other choice
  • marnie マーニー 2020.05.11 15:02

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    @Kimmi キミー i know its hard🥺 its the worst feeling to feel like you’re letting someone you love down, however it should never be a case of “do i make myself happy or do i keep my family happy?” The answer should always be you❤️ Family will always be family x
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.05.11 15:03

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    @marnie マーニー I just don't know how to tell them 😞 x
  • Gaby 2020.05.11 15:05

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    Try to explain them your feelings before to make a decision.
  • Medianoche 2020.05.11 15:10

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    Suerte con eso Kimmi espero que todo se solucione favorablemente y salgas de esa encrucijada pronto, ¡¡¡ ánimo kimmi !!!
  • 🤫 Zodiac ゾディアック 2020.05.11 15:10

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    Aha.. Family emotional ! I really hate this time when you have to do something...🥺 So confusing 😵😵
  • Sara 2020.05.11 15:14

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    Your family won't live your life for you, in the long term you will regret not doing what you truly want. What is it about by the way? (Only if you don't mind telling it)
  • Allen 알렌 アレン 2020.05.11 15:15

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    @Kimmi キミー It's alright to have those kinds of thoughts, but always believe in your gut sis
  • Kimmi キミー 2020.05.11 15:27

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    @Sara I'm thinking about moving back in with my dad because he's gonna provide me with the better tools I need to increase the speed at which I can edit my YouTube videos, but my grandparents will be sad if I move out of their house - where I'm currently living
  • Sara 2020.05.11 15:36

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    @Kimmi キミー ahhh , you can always can back to them later I guess, thanks for answering
  • Joshua Chung 2020.05.11 18:07

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    What’s your priority?

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