作者名称 国旗国籍

Ray さん

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2020.01.25 08:09
I don't think I made any friends in this app. I talk to hmm... 1... 2 person. Rest of the DMs gets a draft of my apology for not being able to help through direct messaging. I don't think "friend" is something you can take lightly specially, if you don't know enough about the other person; you may as well end up hurting them. I learnt that hard way last year. I know, how difficult it is to lose someone that you dared so much. I think I can help you sometimes if you post in your moments but, there is certainly more people that are willing to help much more than me. Maybe, I just like to be selfish but, that's a choice I made.
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  • 昨日情话 2020.01.25 08:13

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    You are right, i had the similar experience with you
  • Izza 2020.01.25 08:15

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    It need good chemistry to get along. When you feel that you already meet one, but for a certain period of time, you lost them. I know how was it feel.
  • mmk 2020.01.25 08:16

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    That's true and how the SNS is.
  • 圆寂 2020.01.25 08:18

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    i really agree with you . some have an ulterior motive for making friends in this app. so I think, just learn language each other, enough. this point is first thing what we use this app. ☕
  • JUJUPA 2020.01.25 08:20

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    To be honest, I agree your point. I have been here for less than a year, someone talked with me 3 or 4times, and then they never even chat with me. I don't know why. they saidthey want to language exchangelearning. but I don't think so.
  • Ray さん 2020.01.25 08:42

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    @昨日情话 🙈 strangers can help one another too. You don't need to be friend to help someone. I.e. you don't need to be friend to help a homeless person in need. I find it more effective getting help by posting in my moment
  • Ray さん 2020.01.25 08:45

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    @Izza @mmk @圆寂 @JUJUPA 🙈 strangers can help one another too. You don't need to be friend to help someone. I.e. you don't need to be friend to help an old lady cross a road. I find it more effective getting help by posting in my moment.
  • Kyoko きょうこ 2020.01.25 08:55

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    I think I have similar thoughts as yours. This is a language learning app and we don’t have to be friends for learning all the time. Of course, you can make friends if there is a person who has lots of commons or has the same way of thinking. It would be wonderful when you find such persons, but it’s not a necessary condition to learn languages. I think you can do whatever you want to do in this app. Take it easy, you’re not selfish at all.
  • 圆寂 2020.01.25 08:59

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    @Ray さん yeah. that's true.
  • Lucy 2020.01.25 10:00

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    it's our original intention
  • Mihoko 2020.01.25 12:48

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    I’m new here and I haven’t experienced a lot yet. In my view, I won’t need many friends but want someone who shares and exchanges opinions with each other, and has a stable friendship. I’ve met you here by chance and I really appreciate you posting a lot of your stimulating real life stories with natural English! They really make my ordinary life liven. It’s true.😌
  • Ray さん 2020.01.25 15:04

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    @Kyoko きょうこ 🙈
  • Matter 2020.01.26 10:56

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    I think sometimes we should insist on ourselves. Don't pay attention to other people says. I am new here as well
  • 十七 2020.01.26 17:34

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    感觉我看完头有点大。。。但我差不多理解意思了。就是没交到知心朋友这意思不
  • Lhamo 2020.01.30 14:50

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    It is normal.
  • 思思 2020.01.30 14:57

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    lack the base of conversation
  • anna 2020.02.04 15:51

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    @十七 有点纠结的人
  • Ray さん 2020.02.04 15:56

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    @anna yeah😅 I can be stubborn sometimes.
  • JZ 2020.02.04 17:31

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    Bad ass
  • Ray さん 2020.02.04 17:32

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    @JZ 😅
  • anna 2020.04.07 02:42

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    @Ray さん However,it not bad things.😃 so many different personal in here. Protecting oneself and follow our heart will be fine. Friend has different type,maybe you not find your dream friend in here. But it is doesn’t matter .

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