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布兰迪 🧸

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2020.11.08 08:07

"Be skinny, wear makeup, have clear skin, cover up, be happy

" these are the words spoken from today's society. Being just a little overweight is considered "fat," you have to wear makeup to be considered "beautiful," having acne means "you don't take care of yourself," wearing clothes that are "too revealing" will lead you to being a "slut", if you cover up too much you'll be considered "insecure," being unhappy isn't acceptable because people have worse problems, so you need to learn to deal with the pain.. These are the impossible standards that we must reach in order to be accepted, loved, and beautiful. The question for me is, how can someone be happy when they are under constant pressure for not being perfect? We will never be perfect and we shouldn't have to constantly strive to impress the world, we shouldn't have to be someone we are not just for the sake of someone else's happiness. People expect so much from everyone, but when tables are turned, it's disrespectful.. no one in this world will ever be proud of themselves because of all the judgments/assumptions made, it's unbelievable to even think that this is the kind of world we live in. Nobody knows anyone's life story, therefore they shouldn't judge people by their appearances. We were put on this earth to make ourself happy because you are you and you have your own life, feel free to live it without letting people control you. We shouldn't have to do things we are uncomfortable with just to be appreciated. Make yourself happy and you will be surrounded with more positive people who will love you for who you are. Don't let society define who or what you are. We are all beautiful no matter the size/looks/race/ethnicity/religion/sexuality/gender. 👑


If you are one of the people that are constantly judging other's and pressuring them to make YOU happy.. Ask yourself this, Are You Happy?
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Comments

  • shailei 2020.11.08 08:08

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    wow you’re amazing!!
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 08:08

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    @shailei you're amazing too!!
  • Alisa_bresooya 2020.11.08 08:09

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    Not happy.But thanks!💕
  • Alisa_bresooya 2020.11.08 08:10

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    You're so beautiful!
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 08:13

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    @Alisa_bresooya you can find happiness when you think about the great memories you've created. Be happy that you are alive today to see the beautiful world. <3
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 08:13

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    @Alisa_bresooya you're so beautiful too!
  • Alisa_bresooya 2020.11.08 08:23

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    @布兰迪 🧸 Thank you very much!
  • Alisa_bresooya 2020.11.08 08:24

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    Wish you happy every day
  • Link 2020.11.08 08:25

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    You don't say!I'm a Chinese girl who is 15.And I'm learning English very hard.I want to be myself, but not care who loves me or not. Appearance is not the only standard to judge one person.So, let's do what we want and be the one you like best.(If there are any problems in my grammar or sentences, don't mind please)
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 08:30

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    @Alisa_bresooya I wish the same to you! :)
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 08:31

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    @Link I agree with you! Don't let the judgements from other's destroy who you are, keep being yourself and make yourself happy!
  • 远分 2020.11.08 09:33

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    机器翻译,不用谢“要瘦,要化妆,要有清爽的皮肤,要裹得严严实实,要开心”,这是当今社会流传下来的一句话。只是有点超重被认为是“脂肪”,你必须化妆被认为是“美丽”,痤疮的意思是“你不照顾好自己,“穿衣服”过于暴露”会使你成为一个“荡妇”,如果你掩盖太多你会被认为是“不安全的”,不幸的是“t可接受的,因为人们有更糟糕的问题,所以你需要学会处理的痛苦. .这些是我们必须达到的不可能的标准,才能被接受、被爱和变得美丽。我的问题是,一个人在不完美的压力下怎么能快乐呢?我们永远都不可能完美,我们不应该不断努力给世界留下深刻印象,我们不应该为了别人的幸福而成为自己。人们对每个人都有很高的期望,但是事与愿违,这是不礼貌的。没有一个我
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 09:35

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    @远分 thanks for translating!!
  • 远分 2020.11.08 09:36

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  • thais 2020.11.08 19:12

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    Omg i love this message thank you its amazing 💗💗💗
  • 布兰迪 🧸 2020.11.08 23:32

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    @thais no problem!😊
  • 사랑 2021.02.17 12:59

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    its too long 😄

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