# Moments by Oca
**@i_oca1**

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Showing 10 of 17 moments

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## 1. 8/24/2025

Vibe restaurannya Chinese. Tapi lagunya Indonesia 😂

Playing now - Mungkinkah by Stinky 

Mungkinkan kita kan selalu bersama = is it possible for us to always be together?
Walau terbentang jarak antara kita = even tho there is a stretched distance between us
Biarkan kupeluk erat bayangmu = 
Tuk melepaskan semua kerinduanku oh

Keywords :
Selalu = always
Terbentang = stretched 
Peluk = hug ; kupeluk = I hug
Kerinduanku= my feel of missing ( in a romantic way; I miss you = aku rindu kamu)

**Language**: Indonesian

*6 likes · 2 comments · 917 views*

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## 2. 8/21/2025

Do you think a committed relationship will turn out ok if both parties have different religious beliefs?

**Language**: English

*3 likes · 349 views*

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## 3. 8/20/2025

Rain brings a melancholic and a nostalgic mood that can make us miss loved ones. We see the same gray skies, smell wet earth, and hear raindrops on rooftops. But our lives aren't the same anymore. Childhood, youth, laughs, tears, wins, losses. We realized that all those moments are gone forever, sparking a hint of fear and loneliness. As the rain pours down, time seems to stretch out, leaving us in a long wait. In this wait, thoughts of a lover we await intensify, wondering when they'll return, imagining their footsteps in the rain, hoping for their presence to break the solitude. Each drop seems to echo the beat of longing.

In one of these rainy days, I would watch My Neighbor Totoro again. To remind me that with a little bit of imagination, I can summon my inner hope and overcome fear and hopelessness. as I see every vehicles pass by in the pouring rain but nobody seems to stop for me

This song below is Sephia by Sheila on 7. A song about saying goodbye to a lover named sephia and told her to not wait anymore

Hey sephia, malam ini ku takkan datang = hey sephia, tonight I will not come
Mencoba tuk berpaling sayang, demi cintamu = I am trying to end my love for you, for the sake of your own love

Hey sephia, malam ini ku takkan pulang = hey sephia, tonight I will not go home
Tak usah kau mencari aku, demi cintamu = don't you look for me, for the sake of your own love

**Language**: English

*4 likes · 3 comments · 156 views*

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## 4. 8/17/2025

It’s strange to think that one random meeting can change the entire direction of your life. And one ending of a relationship can effect you more than you want to. It feels like something really important has been taken away from us.

shout out to those who have moved on from past relationships. Especially for those who moved on without closure. Know that the ending of relationship can be a start of something. Know that you can be free, independence and rebuild things within us.

Happy independence day for Indonesia and for us

These two songs are songs for past love and how love was taken away from us along with them (love of my life by queen & Rindu by Agnes Monica)

Bayang - bayangmu dibatas senja = your shadows in the line of twilight
Matahari membakar rinduku = the sun is burning my feeling of missing

**Language**: English

*8 likes · 1 comments · 203 views*

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## 5. 8/16/2025

In my opinion, the most masculine men, who are mature in their manhood, understand the power of loving and the courage to love. The most confident form of manhood, is a man who can show emphaty, nurturing and vulnerability. In contrast, men who are insecure often seek to be worshipped or loved, craving validation to compensate for their doubts. This kind of masculinity is about connection, compassion, and being brave in vulnerability. not about being dominant.


Newt Scamander in Fantastic Beast is one of best positive presentation of masculinity in Hollywood. A male hero might usually hide his vulnerability, and we've been conditioned to forgive aggression and arrogance in men through these heroes. But in Newt's version of manhood, he is awkward and shy but can show emphaty to both animals and humans, especially to those who is being discriminated or marginalized. Here, all of those traits are framed as a strength, not a weakness and painted as positive and heroic aspects of a male hero in an adventure fantasy story. By showing a character who nurtures and protects by simply pay attention to others and their needs rather than supernatural power, I believe film like this has the power to shape perceptions of masculinity and redefine what it means to be a man.

**Language**: English

*5 likes · 1 comments · 186 views*

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## 6. 8/11/2025

Romantic relationship is so overrated compared to friendship or platonic relationship. We can just enjoy experience with someone and appreciate their presence rather than breaking our own rules just because someone you met is too hot. Moreover, being authentic will come naturally if you're comfortable and you're not pressed by expectations that came within romantic relationship. Who said we don't belong together if we don't have romantic relationship?

**Language**: English

**Voice**: [Listen to recording](https://cdn-global.hellotalk8.com/ht-global-1312929133/mmnt/2/250811/1/146780404/0/0/f78be45af69d0a5459af33819667d1ea.aac)

*4 likes · 1 comments · 190 views*

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## 7. 8/9/2025

All of our young life, we are given responsibilities to pass exams and learning. And suddenly we are an adult and we have to find our own meaning and purpose. For me, I am trying to make a habit of long life learner and make it my life purpose. It can be either challenging myself to join a competition or as simple as listening to music and dig deeper about it's meaning. 

Recently l realized that learning is always side by side with doubting. 
Famous line from decrates is "dubito, ergo cogito, ergo sum"
everything starts with doubt, we doubt to learn, we doubt to question everything we have learned, we doubt to be humbled, to reflect, to leave a room for second chance and to recognize other's presence.

This doesn't mean tolerating harm or shrinking to accommodate someone else's delay. It means remembering that love doesn't always look like mastery. Sometimes it looks like patience, presence, and choosing each other through, the awkward, unfinished parts.

Sometimes, we just forget to slow down, to look and listen, to let out empathy lingers. Sometimes we even hurt others who open up to us by changing it into lectures and criticism.

Just like IQ alone will not be enough without EQ. Emotional Intelligence includes knowing when someone's hearts is in it, even if their tools are not sharp yet. We long for someone to extend their understanding for us when we are trying. We long for someone to give doubts to themselves and leave a room to see our perspectives. And therefore we will be able to see many reasons for all of us to continue learning from everyone. Giving each other's fresh perspective, sing together even if we don't know how to rhyme together, we will try and we will continue to try and learn endlessly. 

Smart people learn from everything and everyone. Average people from their experiences. Stupid people already know all the answers. - Socrates

**Language**: English

*7 likes · 3 comments · 273 views*

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## 8. 8/2/2025

I want to discuss an interesting topic with you. Come and chat!

**Language**: English

*1 likes · 96 views*

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## 9. 8/1/2025

I need a teacher figure in my lover
the one who will give me tough love
A lecture that is always meted out with love
and made love deeper and more textured (the way a sprinkle of sea salt makes caramel sweeter... or a dash of chili brings out the depth of chocolate)

And yeah i will miss you out of love and out of despair
Like the way sweat can be both disgusting and exciting. Lol

**Language**: English

*8 likes · 2 comments · 531 views*

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## 10. 7/28/2025

เก็บคำๆนั้นไว้ ต่อให้รักเธอไปหมดแล้วทั้งหัวใจ
gep kam kam nan wai dto hai rak ter bpai mod laew tang huajai
I'll keep that word, even though I love you with all my heart

เก็บมันไว้ ฉันจะไม่บอก ให้เธอรู้ จนกว่าจะถึงวัน
gep man wai chan ja mai bok hai ter ru jon gwa ja teung wan
I'll keep it and I won't tell you until it's time

ที่เธอรู้สึกเหมือนกับฉัน
ti ter rusuek meuan gap chan
Till you feel the same way as me

**Language**: Thai

*7 likes · 146 views*

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